Top 70 Paula Stokes Quotes (2025 Update)

1. “To me, Mother Nature isn’t nearly as scary as human nature.”

— Paula Stokes

2. “Accidentally hurting yourself is way better than hurting other people.”

— Paula Stokes

3. “I like helping people. Especially people who deserve it.”

— Paula Stokes

4. “When you care about someone, you can’t just turn that off because you learn they betrayed you.”

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5. “You have more power than you think. Be careful what you do with it.”

— Paula Stokes

6. “Time doesn’t heal anything. It’s like drinking. The best it can do is help you forget, if you’re lucky.”

— Paula Stokes

7. “But the truth is, pretending something didn’t happen doesn’t make it less real. it just makes ‘me’ less real.”

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8. “What so many people don’t understand is that the reason some of us do things that seem impossibly hard to others is because we don’t have a choice.”

— Paula Stokes

9. “Monsters don’t get happy endings.”

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10. “I go back for seconds and thirds and fourths and fifths, when it’s good. Just not if it means some guy gets to put a leash on me.”

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11. “It sucks that it takes losing something important to make some people realize they need to change, but unfortunately that’s how it is.”

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12. “Sometimes unintentionally cruel is the worst cruel of all.”

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13. “There’s nothing abnormal about loneliness.”

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14. “The truth doesn’t get you very far on the streets, or in a group home, or even in high school. That’s probably why the idea of Liars, Inc. appealed to me. Everybody lies. You might as well get paid for it.”

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15. “But my history isn’t something I should hide from or be ashamed of. Everyone has dealt with things in their past. It’s not our struggles that make us who we are, it’s how we respond to them.”

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16. “The world is full of holes and uneven seams, wrinkled places that you can’t make smooth, no matter how hard you try.”

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17. “Some people think they can just decree that everything will be fine. The world doesn’t work like that. I’m not sure the world gives a crap about anyone’s promises, well-meaning or otherwise. Sometimes the Universe just takes what it wants.”

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18. “To us, reality is just raw footage: Unclear. Desultory. Too shocking or not quite shocking enough. It’s ironic that making something more real involves making it less real, but Gideon always says people don’t want real. They want the idea of real, which involves production.”

— Paula Stokes

19. “Turning off the lights is like opening a doorway in my mind.”

— Paula Stokes

20. “I am not warm. That is why my sister chose the name Winter for me.”

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21. “It’s not right that some people have so much and others have so little.”

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22. “We can’t define people by their worst actions.”

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23. “My name is Winter Kim. Today I killed a man. Soon I hope to kill another.”

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24. “Never depend completely on other people, but take help when you need it, and give help when you can.”

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25. “People are always clinging to what they want to hear, discarding the evidence that doesn’t fit with their beliefs, giving greater weight to evidence that does.”

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26. “Standing up for yourself is about more than flinging barbed-wire insults around. Its about picking your battles, knowing when to fight, knowing exactly what and who is worth fighting for.”

— Paula Stokes

27. “Seoul is a city of layers and Jesse peels them back with his penetrating gaze, taking in the glitzy Western bars, the alleys sloping upward into cramped housing developments, the doorways leading to dark hallways that lead to offices and noodle shops the casual observer would never even know existed.”

— Paula Stokes

28. “How does the world even keep going with so much pain and tragedy everywhere?”

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29. “If you’ve never been close to death, life probably seems pretty solid. The truth is, it can be destroyed in an instant, like a photograph. One moment your world is slick and shiny. But then the Universe crumples everything into a ball. And even if you don’t get crushed, if you fight to straighten things out, your life will never be the same again.”

— Paula Stokes

30. “Faith seems to be something people develop when their lives are going good. It’s always been in short supply for me.”

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31. “I’ve read so many stories online about how tragedy brings people together, how hard times encourage bravery and sacrifice, how a crisis can turn ordinary folks into heroes. But what about the opposite, when something horrible happens and it strips us bare, exposing weaknesses we didn’t even know we had. What about when tragedy makes people worse?”

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32. “There are so many different ways for someone to say your name. I’m not sure I ever realized that before I met Jesse. Prior to him, it was just Rose calling out to me with love and affection or Gideon relaying his quiet approval or disapproval. Crisp, clear notes. When Jesse says my name, it’s a chord, a mash-up of several intense emotions all reflected in two syllables.”

— Paula Stokes

33. “I’ve been thinking that when people break up there’s usually a reason, and whatever it is, it’s still going to be there even if we do get back together.”

— Paula Stokes

34. “I don’t think you can just choose to believe in God. You either do or you don’t, and no matter what camp you’re in, it would take something life-changing to truly lead you into the other one.”

— Paula Stokes

35. “Whether I deserve affection is not dependent upon how quickly I learn to speak fluently again.”

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36. “It’s no small thing – ending someone else’s life. There should be some sort of gravity to that, shouldn’t there? My insides are heavy, but it has nothing to do with what I did. It is only about what I have lost.”

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37. “It kind of sucks having nothing to lose, but it sucks even worse having everything good taken away from you.”

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38. “No,” Gideon says. “No guns. The most dangerous weapon you have is your brain. Give someone a gun and they tend to quit using it.”

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39. “How do you make me smile when it seems like there’s nothing in the whole world to smile about?”

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40. “How can something feel so crucial in the moment and then seem completely trivial after the fact?”

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41. “I’m not afraid of the dark or what hides within its shadows. To me, Mother Nature isn’t nearly as scary as human nature.”

— Paula Stokes

42. “Guilt is basically one of my superpowers. It’s been programmed into me from the moment I was old enough to know what it was.”

— Paula Stokes

43. “There’s something comforting about his presence. Something that makes me feel hopeful, like everything I want is still possible.”

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44. “That’s one of the problems with nice guys. If They can’t stand up for themselves then they won’t be able to stand up for you either.”

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45. “There’s a thing that sometimes happens in your brain when you’re the only survivor of a horrific accident. Part of you is happy because you’re alive, but the rest of you is devastated. Then the sad part beats up the happy part until nothing is left, until all you feel is terrible sorrow for the people who didn’t make it. And guilt. Guilt because you wonder if the Universe made a mistake. Guilt because you know you’re not any better than those who died.”

— Paula Stokes

46. “Where does seeking justice end and seeking vengeance begin?”

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47. “Jesse and I might as well be caught in a snow globe. Tonight is just a single perfect moment trapped in glass. Tomorrow our protective bubble will be shattered.”

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48. “Lainey is hot in a prom queen kind of way and we used to be friends back in grade school, but that was two lifetimes ago. Now she’s a varsity soccer player and card-carrying popular girl who hangs out with the kind of mean girls and douchebags who get killed first in horror movies.”

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49. “Maybe I could dole out the truth in tiny pieces that, once assembled, would make a picture that resembled a reality in which I hadn’t done anything wrong.”

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50. “You can’t explain love with experiments and MRIs. I don’t care what your research says. Some things are bigger than science.”

— Paula Stokes