“I had to leave my parents to love them again. I had to move across the country to appreciate that I actually had any pull toward them – that I needed them. I had to get away from them in order to come back to them. I’d like to say they did the best they could, but that couldn’t have been their best. I wasn’t doing my best either, so the idea that everyone is always doing the best they can is a trope. Some people are just interested in surviving; doing their best doesn’t even occur to them.”
