“I’d rather have a large life than a long one.” It was a line from a film Bhanu loved. No life could be large in its entirety. Even a life that looked large from the outside was mostly mundane, filled with day-to-day struggles. But if you were lucky, you got to have moments – experiences and relationships – that were so big they made the rest of your life feel large. What I had with Bhanu altered the dimension of my lifetime.”