Top 90 Sonali Dev Quotes (2026 Update)

1. “Child, don’t wait until it’s too late. Lost time is lost forever.”

— Sonali Dev

2. “They were surrounded by people, seemingly enjoying the company, but they kept stealing glances at each other as if everything else were just a distraction. It.”

— Sonali Dev

3. “Whatever the case, we want to change things around us. Because we want to matter, and we believe that our work makes us matter. The work isn’t the end, it’s the means for what we really want: to matter.”

— Sonali Dev

4. “Oh, to have the confidence of a mediocre man.”

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5. “I want you to love me for me, for now, for as much time as we have. I swear I’ll do all I can to take care of myself. I already do. But that’s it. If that’s enough, I’m yours. If you can only love me if you have a guarantee that I’ll be around forever, then find someone else to be terrified of losing and let me go.”

— Sonali Dev

6. “Our dreams are often too large for reality to ever match up.”

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7. “Sometimes you just have to have faith. Sometimes you have to leap first to see if your parachute will open.”

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8. “There’s a difference between benevolence and stupidity and even God knows it.”

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9. “Growing up, we were surrounded by stories of women being married off without their consent, and it was always about how they compromised, reconciled, and found love in the end. It was romanticized so much. What an abhorrent thing to tell someone – that your love isn’t where your interest lie, or that your parents know what’s best for you better than you do.”

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10. “Courage wasn’t only fighting your circumstances; sometimes making peace with your circumstances required more courage.”

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11. “I’d rather have a large life than a long one.” It was a line from a film Bhanu loved. No life could be large in its entirety. Even a life that looked large from the outside was mostly mundane, filled with day-to-day struggles. But if you were lucky, you got to have moments – experiences and relationships – that were so big they made the rest of your life feel large. What I had with Bhanu altered the dimension of my lifetime.”

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12. “She could hardly tell him it was because the child had been born a girl, destined from birth to be bound and gagged, to never be free. And she seemed to have sensed it far sooner than most. Sadly, the poor fool seemed to believe that she could actually do something about it.”

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13. “Ah, fresh young love! It was like the smell of cumin roasting in butter: you couldn’t hide it for anything.”

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14. “She had never been the most social person. Rico hadn’t either. They’d been two self-contained teenagers who had somehow cracked each other’s shells and further destroyed each other’s ability to need other people. This version of her, the one who was so acutely aware of people’s reaction to her, made him want to break her loose.”

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15. “You just have to trust yourself, beta. Focus on what matters to you and don’t let it get all mixed up with what others want.”

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16. “Time. The starkest truth of life – either you didn’t have enough or then it went on and on.”

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17. “If only she’d known then that the cycle of belief, which caused the world to work the way it did, could be broken only by disproving one lie at a time. Women were here today, where they had power, where they had a voice, because molecule by molecule, moment by moment, choice by choice, someone had called out the lies peddled as truth. It had been a boulder the size of the earth, and changing the direction of its spin couldn’t happen at one go.”

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18. “You should smell the mangoes in India. They smell like sugar melting in the summer heat. How do these have no aroma at all?”

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19. “But with evil the roots are as deep and branched as the oldest tree. The motivations are such a spiderweb of nature and nurture and choice and anger and greed and hatred all woven into a sticky mess.”

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20. “Why was it that it took losing things to recognize the full value of them?”

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21. “Sometimes I don’t know exactly how to navigate what I’m feeling. I don’t know if what I’m feeling is real or right or how to go on around it. I feel several things about one thing and it’s a vortex and I get stuck in it.”

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22. “It’s just that sometimes people who appear strongest on the outside can hurt the hardest on the inside.”

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23. “You put your soul into something and people think they can pass judgment on it just like that.” She snapped her fingers. “I’ll never get used to the critics.”

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24. “I wish there was a word for what you’re doing. I wish there was a word for being blind to someone’s situation because you think you know how it feels and you use some tiny part of your own experience and extrapolate it to theirs without realizing that you have a choice and that they have none.”

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25. “The ever-present tangle of lies tightened around her like a hunter’s net. The more she pushed it away, the more it clung to her like sticky, spindly spiderwebs. But the truth had to remain hidden inside the godforsaken asylum and inside the one of silence that was Uma, Vijay, and her, and tragically enough, Vikram’s mother.”

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26. “What could be more than being friends? What could be more than what it felt like to wait by the phone to hear that she was okay? More than waiting to discuss every case with her?”

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27. “Yoga made her mind race all over the place instead of centering it, which made all that breathing and stretching pointless.”

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28. “But he’d turned it into something beautiful. He’d always turned all her messy, impulsive, unfettered emotion into something beautiful.”

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29. “I want you, exactly the way you are today, the way you’ll be tomorrow, and fifty years from now. And I want you to want me enough to deal with whatever happens. I can’t promise you’ll be okay. But without you I will never be okay. And I know that without me you will never be okay either.”

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30. “Deserve was such a strange word, throwing out both blame and accolades with equal mercilessness. Society’s skewed scale for assigning a value to human beings. How many times had he been judged and found lacking? Was there ever a way to measure what anyone deserved? Or was it just another way to pretend that the randomness of the universe made sense?”

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31. “People think secrets are about lies, or shame. But what secrets are really about is fear.”

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32. “She had learned to use her silence as armor and her memories as escape from the sniggers and name-calling.”

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33. “Once the tears started she didn’t know how to stop them. Words and tears – they were the twin gauges of her mental health that took over when she lost control, one drying up, the other oozing from her without consent. She.”

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34. “When he threaded his fingers through her hair and tugged her lips to his, she had melted in his arms, crumbled into infinite pieces, and allowed every single one of them to merge into him. Her.”

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35. “She felt something then, something she had only ever felt with Rahul. It had taken her all these years to be able to name it. It was trust. For whatever reason, she had never once in her life doubted that she would get what she needed from him. Not always what she wanted, but what she really needed.”

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36. “Why is it easier to claim those we lost while forgetting those we rescued?”

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37. “Dancing is the real plastic surgery,” Uma loved to say. “It’s what keeps you young.”

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38. “Why are we supposed to be ashamed of our own nakedness? Doesn’t that turn the vessel we live in, our most precious possession, into an ugly secret?”

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39. “Wealth comes and goes, Rahul. Coming from adversity and overcoming it makes you better not worse than those who never have to.”

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40. “You find the most important things in life suddenly. And it’s almost funny how ordinary those extraordinary moments feel.”

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41. “Happiness seeps into me when you’re around, Rico. Without invitation, without notice, joy finds me. Being around you is being alive, it’s breathing, it’s home.”

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42. “Energy was a healer and touch brought awareness to the part of your body that needed attention, and that had its own power.”

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43. “She wanted to bury what was inside her deeper where it would stop haunting her.”

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44. “What kind of monsters walked the earth? He couldn’t bring himself to call them animals. Because animals never took what wasn’t theirs. Never took something only because it was vulnerable, never destroyed what was beautiful simply because they could.”

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45. “If you don’t know whether you have feelings for someone or not, that means you don’t have feelings for them.”

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46. “The thing about human beings is that they heal,” Ma said. “We’re nature’s creations, we regenerate like the seasons. We just need someone to let us know that we’re worthy of healing.”

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47. “You’re already breaking your promise. A promise isn’t what you say. It’s what you do.”

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48. “She had spent a year not talking even as everyone tried to pry words out of her. Not being able to talk was about fear, about being terrified of what might come out, of what you might expose.”

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49. “Would it be all right to top the crab kachoris with date chutney foam, so the hors d’oeuvre could be circulated without a mess? Should the chicken be served over a bed of pulav or plated individually in bowls?”

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50. “He was hungering for the fight they had never had. The one she owed him, but could never give him.”

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