Top 90 Rabih Alameddine Quotes (2024 Update)

1. “Vanitas vanitatum, omnia vanitas.”

— Rabih Alameddine

2. “The cure for loneliness is solitude. – Marianne Moore, from the essay “If I Were Sixteen Today.”

— Rabih Alameddine

3. “I believe one has to escape oneself to discover oneself.”

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4. “I long ago abandoned myself to a blind lust for the written word. Literature is my sandbox. In it I play, build my forts and castles, spend glorious time.”

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5. “Joy is the anticipation of joy.”

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6. “The eye always fills in the imperfections.”

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7. “Listen. Allow me to be your god. Let me take you on a journey beyond imagining. Let me tell you a story.”

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8. “The receding perspective of my past smothers my present. Remembering is the malignancy that feasts on my now.”

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9. “From my village I see as much of the universe as you can see from earth, So my village is as big as any other land For I am the size of what I see, Not the size of my height. – Fernando Pessoa as Alberto Caeiro, The Keeper of Sheep.”

— Rabih Alameddine

10. “I wonder if being sane means disregarding the chaos that is life, pretending only an infinitesimal segment of it is reality.”

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11. “Mirror mirror on the wall, I am my mother after all.”

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12. “I wonder whether there is such a thing as a sense of individuality. Is it all a facade, covering a deep need to belong? Are we simply pack animals desperately trying to pretend we are not?”

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13. “I opened myself to you only to be skinned alive. The more vulnerable I became, the faster and more deft your knife. Knowing what was happening, still I stayed and let you carve more. That’s how much I loved you. That’s how much.”

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14. “My mind becomes congested, jammed with feelings and thoughts that I can’t formulate nimbly enough.”

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15. “I love the idea of homeland, but not the actual return to one.”

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16. “In Czech, according to Milan Kundera, litost is a state of agony and torment created by the sudden sight of one’s own misery.”

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17. “Forgetting is as integral to memory as death is to life.”

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18. “I long ago abandoned myself to a blind lust for the written word. Literature is my sandbox. In it I play, build my forts and castles, spend glorious time. It is the world outside that box that gives me trouble. I have adapted tamely, though not conventionally, to this visible world so I can retreat without much inconvenience into my inner world of books.”

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19. “She can be ornery now and then, vain for sure, petulant and impetuous, silly at times, ill disposed toward the help, even malicious and malevolent when angry, but, still, she has always been the one for me.”

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20. “Most of us believe we are who we are because of the decisions we’ve made, because of events that shaped us, because of the choices of those around us. We rarely consider that we’re also formed by the decisions we didn’t make, by events that could have happened but didn’t or by our lack of choices, for that matter.”

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21. “By remaining constrained in one’s environment or country or family, one has little chance of being other than the original prescription. By leaving, one gains a perspective, a distance of both space and time, which is essential for writing about family or home, in any case.”

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22. “Do you know the difference between an expat and an immigrant? You’re an immigrant in a country you look up to, an expat in one you consider beneath you.”

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23. “The memory seems both real and unreal, reliable and tenuous, solid and insubstantial.”

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24. “I am my family’s appendix, its unnecessary appendage.”

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25. “At the heart of most antagonisms are irreconcilable similarities. Hundred-year wars were fought over whether Jesus was human in divine form or divine in human form. Belief is murderous.”

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26. “Translation is so important. The new American translations of the Bible sound like a Judith Krantz novel.”

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27. “Henri Matisse once said, “It has bothered me all my life that I do not paint like everybody else.”

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28. “Joy is the anticipation of joy. Reading a fine book for the first time is as sumptuous as the first sip of orange juice that breaks the fast in Ramadan.”

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29. “There are two kinds of people in this world: people who want to be desired, and people who want to be desired so much that they pretend they don’t.”

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30. “Almost everything that men have said best has been said in Greek.”

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31. “Of course, like Descartes, Newton, Locke, Pascal, Spinoza, Kierkegaard, Leibniz, Schopenhauer, Nietzsche, and Wingenstein, Kant never formed an intimate tie or reared a family.”

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32. “Pundits these days keep jabbering and hooting about the Internet being the greatest advancement. Web this, web that, and let the resident spider suck the life out of you.”

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33. “I thought I’d be reading a new book today, but it doesn’t feel right, or I don’t feel like it. Some days are not new-book days. After.”

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34. “Childhood is played out in a foreign language and our memory of it is a Constance Garnett translation.”

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35. “Literature gives me life, and life kills me. Well, life kills everyone.”

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36. “Cioran once said that “one touch of clearsightedness reduces us to our primary state: nakedness.”

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37. “Among the many definitions of progress, “enemy of trees” and “killer of birds” seem to me the most apt.”

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38. “If I happen to come across a garden these days, I burst into bloom.”

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39. “The peasantry, when it wishes to escape peasantry, has always, for centuries, across all borders, escaped into a uniform.”

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40. “How can I expect readers to know who I am if I do not tell them about my family, my friends, the relationships in my life? Who am I if not where I fit in the world, where I fit in the lives of the people dear to me?”

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41. “Most of the books published these days consist of a series of whines followed by an epiphany.”

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42. “Once upon a time there was an island visited by ruin and inhabited by strange peccant creatures. “It’s a sad place,” I say, “and too much like my own life.” He nods. “You mean, the losing struggle against inscrutable blind forces, young dreams brought to ruin.” “Yes,” I tell Coover, “my young dreams are gone. I lost the struggle a long, long time ago.”

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43. “Later, much later, as an adult woman, she wrote of her need to be loved, to be desired, as a ravenous monster with an exigent appetite living in a black hole within. Whatever love was thrown her way, the monster devoured it and left her with nothing.”

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44. “There is none more conformist than one who flaunts his individuality.”

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45. “Can you imagine how lonely she must have felt when she received that phone call? Your lover has just died, your companion has abandoned you, but don’t you dare make an inappropriate sound, because your family is around. No one to touch you the way he did, no one to understand you, no one to hug you to sleep, but don’t dare allow your face to show a glint of grief. The cutting pain of feeling alone amid loved ones.”

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46. “Reality never meets our wants, and adjusting both is why we tell stories.”

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47. “My features have blunted with the passage of time, my reflection only faintly resembles how I see myself. Gravity demands payback for the years my body has resisted it.”

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48. “What happened to all those leading men of the great bacchanalia? They either died of AIDS or accepted roles as supporting actors in the middlebrow drama series of hetero culture-you know, if they’re to kiss, we must have sunsets in the background. Once they were proud to explore every crevice of life in the margins, now their ambition is just to get along. Color me unimpressed.”

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49. “Alain Robbe-Grillet once wrote that the worst thing to happen to the novel was the arrival of psychology. You can assume he meant that now we all expect to understand the motivation behind each character’s actions, as if that’s possible, as if life works that way. I’ve read so many recent novels, particularly those published in the Anglo world, that are dull and trite because I’m always supposed to infer causality.”

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50. “She felt the intimate loss of who she was meant to become.”

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