Top 60 Shelley Parker-Chan Quotes (2024 Update)

1. “However tired I am, however hard it is: I know I can keep going, because I’m alive.”

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2. “To Ouyang, who had endured his entire life for the purpose of avenging his blood, it was a practice so alien as to be incomprehensible. He didn’t know what he would do if Chaghan killed Esen.”

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3. “The greater the desire, the greater the suffering, and now she desired greatness itself.”

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4. “In that moment, Esen seemed breathtakingly handsome, so much so that Ouyang felt a sharp ache of incomprehension, that someone this perfect, so alive and so full of the pleasure of the moment, could be. It hurt like grief.”

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5. “Do you think for a moment I forgot? Did you think I wasn’t even man enough to care? Think me a coward who would dishonor my family and ancestors for the sake of staying alive like this? I may have lost everything important to a man, I may live in shame. But I am still a son. I will.”

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6. “The memory of Esen’s fingertips on his face seared him. Part of him yearned for the debasement of that touch again, and an equal part hated Esen for having called pleasure and submissiveness out of him without even realizing what he had done. Eash part hurt. The combined pain of them crushed him.”

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7. “If he’d been as vain and fragile as little Guo, she could have distracted him with wounding words, but how could you hurt someone who was nothing but pain?”

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8. “But you know what’s worse than suffering? Not suffering, because you’re not even alive to feel it.”

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9. “For all he had acknowledged her as a being capable of desire, he hadn’t seen her reality; that she was a woman, trapped within the narrow confines of a woman’s life, and everything that could be wanted was all equally impossible.”

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10. “Desire is the cause of all suffering.”

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11. “He had always believed revenge would change something. It was only in having done it that he understood that what had been lost was still lost forever, that nothing he could do would ever erase the shame of his own existence.”

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12. “I don’t want to be great, Zhu repeated. Her desire was the radiance of the sun, an immensity that filled every part of her without exception. Who else understood what it was to feel something of this magnitude; to want something with the entirety of their self, as she did? “I want to be the greatest.”

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13. “If you want a fate other than what Heaven gave you, you have to want that other fate. You have to struggle for it. Suffer for it.”

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14. “In having told yourself so often that I’m worthless, have you forgotten what my domain actually is? I’m an administrator. I know far better than you the nature of business, and merchants. And I know they need more than the promise of praise to be persuaded into action.”

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15. “Inside her there was only the perfect, blank brightness of belief and desire. Desire is the cause of all suffering. The greater the desire, the greater the suffering, and now she desired greatness itself. With all her will, she directed the thought to Heaven and the watching statues: Whatever suffering it takes, I can bear it.”

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16. “He recognized it as pure, murderous intent. He hoped the monk could feel his ill will, even at a distance, and be tormented by it for every moment until Ouyang came for him. “Account for the dead, send the injured to the back, and continue.”

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17. “She saw someone who seemed neither male nor female, but another substance entirely: something wholly and powerfully of its own kind. The promise of difference, made real.”

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18. “Pure emotions are the luxury of children and animals,” Ouyang said, and felt the terrible weight of his own tangled emotions.”

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19. “Prefect Fang certainly didn’t lack will! But it was you who realized that it was possible to turn a greater power against him, and who did so without hesitation. “You think about how the world works, Novice Zhu, and that – that interests me.”

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20. “There is no place for you here, either! Are you a woman without shame, that you would be a burden upon my house?” The Governor was obviously the kind of person who received as much spiritual contentment from berating others as a cold man does from a bowl of soup. “No, I think not. To Khanbaliq or elsewhere, it matters little to me; I have no responsibility for my predecessor’s debts and belongings.”

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21. “Learn to want something for yourself, Ma Xiuying. Not what someone says you should want. Not what you think you should want. Don’t go through life thinking only of duty. When all we have are these brief spans between our nonexistences, why not make the most of the life you’re living now? The price is worth it.”

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22. “He had done what he had to do, and in doing so he had destroyed the world.”

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23. “I can do this. I can learn. I can survive.”

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24. “It made no more sense to doubt the inevitability of fate than it did to doubt the color of the sky.”

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25. “Not-wanting is a desire too; it yields suffering just as much as wanting.”

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26. “Why aren’t you happier? I’m just being who you’ve always thought I was. I’m giving you the ending you believed in.” He lingered for a moment, then pulled back. “Goodbye, brother.”

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27. “Children had taken pleasure in whispering to one another. That in other, worse-off villages, neighbors would swap their youngest children to eat... But now, seeing her father avoiding her gaze, the girl realized it wasn’t just a story... In that one terrible moment, she knew what her fate of nothing meant.”

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28. “She was grieving her life as she never had before, and it was all this monk’s fault for having conjured the impossible fantasy of a world in which she was free to desire.”

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29. “Nobody will ever end me. I’ll be so great that no one will be able to touch me, or come near me, for fear of becoming nothing.”

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30. “As the descendant of a traitor, you might want to be careful to succeed with your next endeavor, lest people begin to wonder whether your mistakes are caused by something other than incompetence.”

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31. “With sufficient competence, there’s no need of flattery.”

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32. “She didn’t just want greatness. She wanted the world.”

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33. “It would be the biggest gamble of her life. But if she wanted greatness – she was going to have to stand up and claim it.”

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34. “He didn’t like the idea that his successes and failures, so hard-earned in the field, might be nothing more than weapons for the court’s internecine battles.”

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35. “A woman gambles all of herself, body and future, when she marries. That’s more courageous than any risk a bureaucrat takes when it concerns only his face, or his wealth.”

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36. “I need a sparring partner,” Zhu had explained cheerfully. “You’re about my level, in that you know absolutely nothing.”

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37. “However, having grown up on a peasant’s monotonous diet, and with only a half-formed suspicion that better things might exist, her imagination was limited to the dimension of quantity.”

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38. “The body became used to exercise, particular sounds and sensations, or even physical pain. But it was strange how shame was something you never became inured to: each time hurt just as much as the first.”

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39. “It was a pull from a fate in the outside world, where greatness was made.”

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40. “The girl was startled by her own anger. Heaven had promised Chongba life enough to achieve greatness, and he had given up that life as easily as breathing. He had chosen to become nothing. The girl wanted to scream at him. Her fate had always been nothing. She had never had a choice.”

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41. “Your only value to him lies in your army, and you wouldn’t even have an army. You’d be nothing but a washed-up provincial whose lands are being swallowed on one side by the rebels, and Bolud on the other!”

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42. “The residence’s doors banged and slammed as if by angry ghosts, and Ouyang felt his ancestors’ eyes upon him as he ate with the son of his family’s murderer, the person he held dearest in all the world.”

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43. “Yes.′ Ouyang tried to laugh. It stuck in his throat like a salty sea urchin. ‘This is your death. That is mine. We’re fixed, Esen.’ The saltiness was choking him. ‘We have always been.”

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44. “At some point, though the girl couldn’t remember exactly when, she had become the only girl in the village... If a family had a son and a daughter and two bites of food, who would waste one on a daughter?”

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45. “He had never been able to inhabit a moment of pleasure as simply and purely as Esen did. Just knowing that it was transient – that any moment would be drained of its sweetness and vividness once it became memory – made it bittersweet to him even as it was happening.”

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46. “Take him out drinking with you somewhere in Qingyuan tonight. Then on the way home,” she said, “kill him.” – Zhu.”

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47. “Most strong-willed people never understand that will alone isn’t enough to guarantee their survival. They don’t realize that even more so than will, survival depends upon an understanding of people and power.”

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48. “And the boy who had been the Zhu family’s second daughter said, clearly enough for Heaven to hear, “My name is Zhu Chongba.”

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49. “Where’s the fun in suffering by yourself?” Xu Da said in his good-natured way. Surprised, Zhu realized he was probably her friend. She’d never had a friend before. But she wasn’t sure suffering could be shared, even with one’s friends. Watching her father and brother die, digging their graves, kneeling for four days in front of the monastery: all of them had been acts of exquisite aloneness. She knew that when she came down to it, you survived and died alone.”

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50. “You never realized that it wasn’t your name they were going to call, exhorting you to reign for ten thousand years. It was mine.”

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