Top 100 Stephanie Lahart Quotes (2025 Update)

1. “I’ve got self-love, self-confidence, and self-motivation... I AM POWERFUL.”

— Stephanie Lahart

2. “Self-Worth. Self-Love. Self-Esteem. Self-Motivation. Self-Confidence. All of these things equal Self-Empowerment. Always believe in yourself, even if nobody else does!”

— Stephanie Lahart

3. “She’s got self-love, self-confidence, and self-motivation. She is POWERFUL... She is me!”

— Stephanie Lahart

4. “Strive to build friendships that don’t consist of competition, comparison, jealousy, or drama. Make friends that bring out the best in you, celebrate you, and that genuinely like and love you. Genuine friendship is life!”

— Stephanie Lahart

5. “Give yourself a break. Embrace and accept yourself for who YOU are. Love yourself and be kind to yourself. See the best in yourself! Be brave and have courage to be comfortable in your own skin. Knowing your self-worth is everything.”

— Stephanie Lahart

6. “Lucky? Nah... Blessed and Highly Favored.”

— Stephanie Lahart

7. “Genuine friends will NOT be intimidated by your success. They will be happy for you and celebrate you! Don’t fool yourself; jealousy and friendship do NOT mix.”

— Stephanie Lahart

8. “Her heart is Exquisite! She’s genuine, loving, kind, compassionate, and generous. An awe-inspiring soul is what she is! She is joy, she is light, she is LOVE.”

— Stephanie Lahart

9. “I live my life authentically, fearlessly, and unapologetically.”

— Stephanie Lahart

10. “Just say NO to complicated, dead-end, unhealthy, and toxic relationships.”

— Stephanie Lahart

11. “My natural hair is an exquisite crown.”

— Stephanie Lahart

12. “Inspire, celebrate, and empower our Black males. Support them in becoming confident, intelligent, strong, capable, and powerful Black men, teens, and boys. There’s GREAT power in Black male positivity!”

— Stephanie Lahart

13. “Above everything else, genuinely love yourself first. Self-love is powerful and it’s the best love that you will ever have. When you love who YOU are, your relationships will be healthier and your life will be happier. Self-love sets the standard in how we allow others to treat us and how we treat ourselves. Your happiness and well-being is important. Protect it by always valuing who you are!”

— Stephanie Lahart

14. “Her INNER BEAUTY is what makes her outer beauty exquisitely beautiful.”

— Stephanie Lahart

15. “Lucky? Nah... I’m a Blessed and Highly Favored Black Woman.”

— Stephanie Lahart

16. “Pick that chin up and adjust your crown, Queen! Life has its disappointments and challenges, but you’ve got faith, strength, perseverance, and resilience inside your DNA. You’ll get through this! Be encouraged, and in spite of what you’re going through, BELIEVE.”

— Stephanie Lahart

17. “Dear Young Black Males, Encourage yourself, believe in yourself, and love yourself. Never doubt who you are. Always believe in yourself, even if nobody else does. Strive to be self-motivated!”

— Stephanie Lahart

18. “Respect, Love, and Value yourself. Always remember to be good to yourself by taking care of yourself. Make yourself a priority and know that it’s okay. Don’t feel guilty for loving yourself, first! You’re just as important as anybody else.”

— Stephanie Lahart

19. “Dear Exquisite Black Queen... No matter what shade of MELANIN you are, know that your skin tone is brilliant. You, my Queen, are phenomenally made!”

— Stephanie Lahart

20. “A mother-daughter bond is the perfect blessing, so that makes me one blessed mom, because I have YOU.”

— Stephanie Lahart

21. “Black Fatherhood is an incomparable gift to Black men that truly comprehend what it means to be called dad, daddy, father, or pops. What a privilege it is to raise a child with patience, understanding, communication, support, encouragement, friendship, guidance, and unconditional love. It is an absolute honor!”

— Stephanie Lahart

22. “Some people take loyalty way too far. I have boundaries when it comes to loyalty. Yes, I’m loyal, but not to a fault. I cannot and will not compromise myself for other people’s senseless behavior. I have common sense, a great deal of wisdom, and I value my life. Loyalty shouldn’t cost you your integrity, freedom, or your life. Think!”

— Stephanie Lahart

23. “Hustle. Grind. Integrity.”

— Stephanie Lahart

24. “Don’t do it! Don’t you dare think about giving up! EVERYTHING has a process. Work with the process, not against it. Move forward with purpose and never stop believing. You can do this! You know you can.”

— Stephanie Lahart

25. “Being Uniquely YOU is the New Perfect.”

— Stephanie Lahart

26. “Every woman needs these three things: Self-Esteem, Self-Love, and Self-Confidence. A female that possess all three is an empowered and unstoppable Queen. She knows her worth! Everything about her represents quality. Her happiness comes from within, first. She respects herself. She values who she is. She’s not easily impressed or persuaded by people or things. She has purpose and direction! An admirable being is what she is: Extraordinary and highly desirable. She’s an Unparalleled Woman.”

— Stephanie Lahart

27. “I’m not like the rest, I’m an Unapologetic Exquisite Black Queen!”

— Stephanie Lahart

28. “Melanin is an incomparable beauty. From the lightest to the darkest skin tone, Black women and Black girls are exquisite beauty in every shade. Yes, Black females have that special something that just can’t be ignored. We are Melanin Queens, beautifully created! Respect the complexion.”

— Stephanie Lahart

29. “I’m an Exquisite Black Queen! I like, love, and celebrate myself. I don’t fit society’s beauty standards, but I’m beautiful to me. I know my worth and I respect who I am as a woman. I’ve got beauty on the inside and that makes me empowered and powerful. I’m fearless and comfortable in my own skin. I’ve got flaws, but I’m still confident! This Queen right here is flawed yet phenomenal, valuable and unique!”

— Stephanie Lahart

30. “Yes, a person can accept your apology and forgive you for what you’ve said, but they will never forget how you made them feel at that very moment. Words can stick in a person’s mind, heart, and spirit long after the words have been spoken. Don’t be in denial; words have GREAT power. Be wise when you speak!”

— Stephanie Lahart

31. “Black, intelligent, and educated... Now that’s POWER.”

— Stephanie Lahart

32. “Until YOU get enough of what you’re going through, no matter what advice a person gives you, you’ll continue to go through the same thing. When you get the courage to stop making excuses for them, and stop excusing their behavior, then you’ll be able to break free from that unhealthy situation. You’ve got to be willing to face YOUR truth in order to move on and be at peace. You matter!”

— Stephanie Lahart

33. “My Black is Exquisite Beauty.”

— Stephanie Lahart

34. “Say It Out Loud: I AM beautiful. I AM worthy. I AM somebody. I DO deserve to be genuinely loved. I DO deserve to be respected. I DO deserve happiness.”

— Stephanie Lahart

35. “Be VERY careful of who or what you entertain when you’re bored. Boredom can get you caught up in some foul stuff. Trust!”

— Stephanie Lahart

36. “I’m a Black woman. Empowered, powerful, and greatness.”

— Stephanie Lahart

37. “She doesn’t need the spotlight, because she is the light wherever she goes.”

— Stephanie Lahart

38. “You won’t accomplish or reach your greatest potential in life if your main focus is on what other people think of you. No matter how great you are, some people will form their own negative opinions of you. Don’t give your haters your time or energy! People that are negative, jealous, and envious of you aren’t worth your future. Go after your dreams with purpose and unwavering belief!”

— Stephanie Lahart

39. “Crying is NOT a weakness. Cry as much as you have to. Don’t be afraid or ashamed to let your tears flow. Crying is a natural part of life. We all have feelings, and sometimes crying is all that we can do. Crying can help relieve the pain, hurt, disappointments, and all of the other things that life can throw our way. Know that it’s okay, and know that you’re going to be okay as well. Wishing You: Peace of mind, Comfort, Happiness, Joy within and LOVE.”

— Stephanie Lahart

40. “Black women were beautifully created at birth. We were blessed with melanin in our skin, which makes us Exquisitely Beautiful. From the lightest to the darkest skin tone, our melanin is Fiercely Poppin’ on Purpose. There’s no denying it, a Black woman’s beauty is elegant! We are Black Queens... Uniquely perfect, flaws and all!”

— Stephanie Lahart

41. “Be Authentic. Be Fearless. Be Unapologetic. Always have a strong sense of self!”

— Stephanie Lahart

42. “She needed somebody to believe in her, so she decided to be that somebody! She stopped doubting herself and gave herself a chance. She persevered through every obstacle, because NOT believing in herself was no longer an option. Self-doubt wasn’t welcome there anymore.”

— Stephanie Lahart

43. “There’s not a single good thing about fear. Fear is a habitual liar and a destroyer of a purpose-filled life. Don’t entertain fear. You’ve got to protect your dreams, goals, and the desires of your heart. Be brave in all things!”

— Stephanie Lahart

44. “Replace the word can’t with can. Know that you can, believe that you can, and know with ALL of your heart that you will. You will succeed in spite of any obstacles that may try to hinder you! There’s so much power in having a positive attitude, positive mindset, and positive outlook.”

— Stephanie Lahart

45. “She is Empowered by Strong FAITH. She is Me.”

— Stephanie Lahart

46. “Confident Black Woman. I Celebrate Self.”

— Stephanie Lahart

47. “Bae: Black and Exquisite.”

— Stephanie Lahart

48. “That reflection in the mirror is YOU. I encourage you to love her, flaws and all! Be kind to her, take care of her, see the best in her, and celebrate her.”

— Stephanie Lahart

49. “She didn’t play the game, she changed the game!”

— Stephanie Lahart

50. “Fierce Exquisite Black Queen!”

— Stephanie Lahart