Top 80 Steven Rowley Quotes (2024 Update)

1. “Guncle Rule number eight: Live your life to the fullest every single day, because every day is a gift. That’s why people die. To teach us the importance of living.”

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2. “Yours is by far the harder lot, but mine is happening to me.”

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3. “I always thought Peter Pan was death. An angel of death who came to collect children.”

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4. “Guncle Rule number seven: In this house we wear what we want, it doesn’t matter if it’s for boys or girls. Anything goes, anything you want, so long as it doesn’t have mean words printed on it and it’s not making fun of anyone else. We don’t worry about what others think. Deal?”

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5. “Dogs, on the other hand... dogs have pure souls. Look at me.” I grab her chin and look straight into her eyes. “Dogs are always good and full of selfless love. They are undiluted vessels of joy who never, ever deserve anything bad that happens to them. Especially you. Since the day I met you, you have done nothing but make my life better in every possible way. Do you understand?”

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6. “It’s nice, the stars. They make me feel unimportant. In a good way. Like my problems don’t matter. They’re not problems. I’m not anything. Just insignificant bits of star dust.”

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7. “Guncle Rule number five: If a gay man hands you his phone, look only at what he’s showing you. If it’s a photo, don’t swipe. And for god’s sake, don’t open any unfamiliar apps.”

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8. “What do we say in this house? Boys can do girl things and girls can do boy things. That’s not even a Guncle Rule, there shouldn’t even be boy things and girl things to begin with. People should just do what they want.”

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9. “We’re hyper-connected, but at the same time desperately lonely. We’re overstimulated by bright lights in our face all the time and the promise of more and more content, more and more people to follow, but we’re also numb, scrolling and scrolling past images we don’t even take the time to recognize, or form a cognizant thought about what they’re saying.”

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10. “Be present in the moment. Give spontaneous affection.”

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11. “Someone once said give a dog food and shelter and treats and they think you are a god, but give a cat the same and they think they are the god.”

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12. “She taught me everything I know about patience, kindness, strength, and unconditional love. For that, I am forever in her debt. Lily, you were, quite simply, the greatest to me.”

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13. “Because dogs live in the present. Because dogs don’t hold grudges. Because dogs let go of all of their anger daily, hourly, and never let it fester. They absolve and forgive with each passing minute. Every turn of a corner is the opportunity for a clean slate. Every bounce of a ball brings joy and the promise of a fresh chase.”

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14. “The very best thing about dogs is how they just know when you need them most, and they’ll drop everything that they’re doing to sit with you awhile. I.”

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15. “What’s wrong with Tuesdays?” Trent asks. “Everything. Monday’s always Monday, but at least it’s the start of something new. Wednesday is hump day, Thursday’s almost Friday, and Friday brings the weekend. But Tuesday? Nada.”

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16. “Dogs are always good and full of selfless love. They are undiluted vessels of joy who never, ever deserve anything bad that happens to them.”

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17. “Grief orbits the heart. Some days the circle is greater. Those are the good days. You have room to move and dance and breathe. Some days the circle is tighter. Those are the hard ones.”

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18. “You can’t spell nemesis without me, sis.”

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19. “He cursed her silently at the dinner table, angry that she could not understand things that he would never allow her to see. But the whole time, he had a mother to curse, to hate, to forgive. He had a mother to stand there and listen, to take these tirades and to forgive him right back.”

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20. “Most of all, I am thankful for Lily, who, since she entered my life, has taught me everything I know about patience and kindness and meeting adversity with quiet dignity and grace. No one makes me laugh harder, or want to hug them tighter. You have truly lived up to the promise of man’s best friend.”

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21. “The sun rises with a surprising intensity, a sign that June Gloom has cleared the runway and July is on approach. We are both tired, and it would’ve been to return to our bed after our morning walk, read from a book maybe, drift lazily in and out of sleep. But the sun beckons with a blazingly confrontational message: There is darkness, but there is also light. To stay in bed would be to embrace the darkness, the seizures, the octopus. To go outside is to embrace the light.”

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22. “There’s no shame in surrender when it’s time to stop fighting.”

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23. “People who love each other fight. The opposite of love isn’t anger. It’s indifference. When people stop fighting, that’s when you should be worried.”

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24. “I don’t know the derivation of this comfort craving, but there’s a quote from Cookie Monster that’s always inhabited my head: ‘Today me will live in the moment, unless it’s unpleasant, in which case me will eat a cookie.’ While I don’t take all of my mantras from goggle-eyed blue monsters with questionable grammar, this one has taken root. Lately I’ve been craving cookies a lot.”

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25. “I’m not gay professionally, Cassie. I maintain my amateur status to compete in the Gay Olympics.”

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26. “Books should be an experience, he thought, not a trophy for having read them.”

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27. “Death is a unique opponent, in that death always wins.” Kal offers a small hiccup of a shrug, as if this is of little significance. “There’s no shame in surrender when it’s time to stop fighting.”

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28. “There are two tragedies in life: one is not getting what you want, the other is getting it.”

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29. “I love you, he said silently in his head, to himself, to the kids, to Joe, to Sara, to no one. To everyone.”

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30. “What they need is some fun. What they need is a change of scenery. What they need is to laugh and be silly and be kids.”

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31. “Gay people, Christians always fighting over the symbolism when rainbows rightfully belonged to the leprechauns.”

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32. “I wish you total freedom from pain. Freedom from the body that failed you. I hope that you’re full of light, unconstrained, and that you can dance. Because I know how you loved to dance.”

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33. “The sky is not going to fall. That’s what I’m telling you. The pain you feel, the disaster you think is imminent. Those feelings fade. And some days you even miss it. Some days you miss the pain, because you’re afraid. Afraid that as the pain softens so do memories of the one you lost.”

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34. “I don’t remember anything but betrayal. The sharp realization that Lily is the octopus. That she has been deceiving me all along.”

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35. “Normal is a terrible thing to aspire to,” Patrick had said. “Aim higher.”

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36. “Thousands of candles can be lit from a single one, and the life of that candle will not be shortened. That’s what you do for others. You light their candle with yours.”

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37. “Grief is a pathological condition. It’s just that so many of us go through it in life that we never think to treat it as such.”

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38. “Grief is a pathological condition. It’s just that so many of us go through it in life that we never think to treat it as such. We just expect people to go through it, endure it, and come out the other side.”

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39. “So many nights Patrick had looked up at the desert night sky trying to find meaning, trying to locate himself. He would always come back to the same thing: stargazing was time traveling.”

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40. “After a pause Lily looks up at me. “Sometimes I think of you as Dad.” My heart rises in my throat. That’s the only term of endearment I need.”

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41. “If you spend your entire life trying to cheat death, there’s no time left over to embrace life.”

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42. “A heart is judged not by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others.”

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43. “The books were easy to restack, but he pulled a few titles to donate, anyhow. Books should be an experience, he thought, not a trophy for having read them.”

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44. “Even on my best days, I always wished life excited me as much as it excited her.”

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45. “My point is, we were all figuring out this thing called life, and in truth we probably are still. But there is always someone a little farther down the path, and if they have a kind heart, if they truly care about others, every so often they turn back and light the way.”

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46. “I wish I was curled up on the floor in the sun beside Lily. I wish I could lay my hand on her like I did when she was a pup, to let her know that all that worried her would be okay so long as I was there. It’s where I belong instead of here.”

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47. “I don’t understand how my life got so empty, or why the octopus came, or why everyone eventually goes away.”

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48. “It was the thing Patrick missed most about youth, the assumption that everything would just work itself out. That and his back not hurting.”

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49. “I gently lift her up and study her Frankenstein scar. it’s like she’s now assembled from two different dogs: the puppy who will always want to play, and the senior dog who must come to understand her limits.”

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50. “I used to be scared of anger, and that’s because I bottled it up inside. Not anymore! It’s like vomiting after drinking too much. Sure, it’s unpleasant in the moment, but then you feel so much better! Anger is beautiful if you express it just right. Let it out.”

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