Thomas Merton Quotes
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51. “Prayer and love are learned in the hour when prayer becomes impossible and the heart has turned to stone.”

— Thomas Merton

52. “Contemplative living is living in true relationship with oneself, God, others and nature, free of the illusions of separateness.”

— Thomas Merton

53. “One of the first things to learn if you want to be a contemplative is to mind your own business. Nothing is more suspicious, in a man who seems holy, than an impatient desire to reform other men.”

— Thomas Merton

54. “My God, I pray better to you by breathing. I pray better to you by walking than by talking.”

— Thomas Merton

55. “The root of war is fear.”

— Thomas Merton

56. “The gift of love is the gift of the power and capacity to love, and therefore, to give love with full effect is also to receive it. So love can only be kept by being given away, and it can only be given perfectly when it is also received.”

— Thomas Merton

57. “One has to be alone, under the sky, Before everything falls into place and one finds his or her own place in the midst of it all. We have to have the humility to realize ourselves as part of nature.”

— Thomas Merton

58. “Even the darkest moments of the liturgy are filled with joy, and Ash Wednesday, the beginning of the lenten fast, is a day of happiness, a Christian feast.”

— Thomas Merton

59. “Be human in this most inhuman of ages; guard the image of man for it is the image of God.”

— Thomas Merton

60. “We do not exist for ourselves.”

— Thomas Merton

61. “Gratitude takes nothing for granted, is never unresponsive, is constantly awakening to new wonder.”

— Thomas Merton

62. “The truth that many people never understand until it is too late is that the more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer.”

— Thomas Merton

63. “Despair is the absolute extreme of self-love. It is reached when a person deliberately turns his back on all help from anyone else in order to taste the rotten luxury of knowing himself to be lost.”

— Thomas Merton

64. “Love is the door to eternity.”

— Thomas Merton

65. “A faith that is afraid of other people is not faith at all.”

— Thomas Merton

66. “Do not be one of those who, rather than risk failure, never attempts anything.”

— Thomas Merton

67. “What is the use of praying if at the very moment of prayer, we have so little confidence in God that we are busy planning our own kind of answer to our prayer?”

— Thomas Merton

68. “The great thing, and the only thing, is to adore and praise GOD.”

— Thomas Merton

69. “Take more time, cover less ground.”

— Thomas Merton

70. “True happiness is found in unselfish Love, A love which increases in proportion as it is shared.”

— Thomas Merton

71. “The gate of heaven is everywhere.”

— Thomas Merton

72. “My spiritual goal is to one day walk into God and disappear.”

— Thomas Merton

73. “For perfect hope is achieved on the brink of despair, when instead of falling over the edge, we find ourselves walking on air.”

— Thomas Merton

74. “The man of faith who has never experienced doubt is not a man of faith.”

— Thomas Merton

75. “True encounter with Christ liberates something within us, a power we did not know we had, a capacity to grow and change.”

— Thomas Merton

76. “Every man has a vocation to be someone: but he must understand clearly that in order to fulfill this vocation he can only be one person: himself.”

— Thomas Merton

77. “If we have not silence, God is not heard in our music. If we have no rest God, does not bless our work.”

— Thomas Merton

78. “Nothing has ever been said about God that hasn’t already been said better by the wind in the pine trees.”

— Thomas Merton

79. “Every one of us is shadowed by an illusory person: a false Self. We are not very good at recognizing illusions, least of all the ones we cherish about ourselves.”

— Thomas Merton

80. “Grace is not a strange, magic substance which is subtly filtered into our souls to act as a kind of spiritual penicillin. Grace is unity, oneness within ourselves, oneness with God.”

— Thomas Merton

81. “Instead of hating the people you think are war-makers, hate the appetites and disorder in your own soul, which are the causes of war. If you love peace, then hate injustice, hate tyranny, hate greed – but hate these things in yourself, not in another.”

— Thomas Merton

82. “What can we gain by sailing to the moon if we are not able to cross the abyss that separates us from ourselves? This is the most important of all voyages of discovery, and without it, all the rest are not only useless, but disastrous.”

— Thomas Merton

83. “You are made in the image of what you desire.”

— Thomas Merton

84. “Our idea of God tells us more about ourselves than about Him.”

— Thomas Merton

85. “There is a pervasive form of contemporary violence to which the idealist fighting for peace by nonviolent methods most easily succumbs; activism and overwork.”

— Thomas Merton

86. “To hope is to risk frustration. Make up your mind to risk frustration.”

— Thomas Merton

87. “I will not fear, for you are ever with me and you will never leave me to face my perils alone.”

— Thomas Merton

88. “Here is an unspeakable secret: paradise is all around us and we do not understand.”

— Thomas Merton

89. “There is only one problem on which all my existence, my peace, my happiness depend: to discover myself in discovering God. If I find Him I will find myself and if I find my true self I will find Him.”

— Thomas Merton

90. “Self-conquest is really self-surrender. Yet before we can surrender ourselves we must become ourselves. For no one can give up what he does not possess.”

— Thomas Merton

91. “True happiness is not found in any other reward than that of being united with God. If I seek some other reward besides God Himself, I may get my reward but I cannot be happy.”

— Thomas Merton

92. “That is God’s call to us – simply to be people who are content to live close to him and to renew the kind of life in which the closeness is felt and experienced.”

— Thomas Merton

93. “We must make the choices that enable us to fulfill the deepest capacities of our real selves.”

— Thomas Merton

94. “I shall lead you through the loneliness, the solitude you will not understand; but it is my shortcut to your soul.”

— Thomas Merton

95. “Music is pleasing not only because of the sound but because of the silence that is in it: without the alternation of sound and silence there would be no rhythm.”

— Thomas Merton

96. “Not all of us are called to be hermits, but all of us need enough silence and solitude in our lives to enable the deeper voice of our own self to be heard at least occasionally.”

— Thomas Merton

97. “The real hope is not in something we think we can do, but in God, who is making something good out of it in some way we cannot see.”

— Thomas Merton

98. “Whose silence are you?”

— Thomas Merton

99. “One might say I have decided to marry the silence of the forest. The sweet dark warmth of the whole world will have to be my wife.”

— Thomas Merton

100. “The grateful person knows that God is good, not by hearsay but by experience. And that is what makes all the difference.”

— Thomas Merton