Top 30 Toni Collette Quotes (2025 Update)

1. “The better you know yourself, the better your relationship with the rest of the world.”

— Toni Collette

2. “I think that the Japanese culture is one of the very few cultures left that is its own entity. They’re just so traditional and so specific in their ways. It’s kind of untouched, it’s not Americanized.”

— Toni Collette

3. “My life is as good as an Abba song. It’s as good as Dancing Queen.”

— Toni Collette

4. “People are so fearful about opening themselves up. All you want to do is to be able to connect with other people. When you connect with other people, you connect with something in yourself. It makes you feel happy. And yet it’s so scary, it makes people feel vulnerable and unsafe.”

— Toni Collette

5. “I try to play real people who inspire me through something in their journey.”

— Toni Collette

6. “We’re all really happy with what’s familiar. But what’s inevitable in life is change. That’s what life is.”

— Toni Collette

7. “An accent in a way can be an entry into a character.”

— Toni Collette

8. “I think the most interesting thing about any story is how people change. That’s usually a struggle, because change is pretty much an uncomfortable thing.”

— Toni Collette

9. “I’ve never really been a fan of violence.”

— Toni Collette

10. “It’s a funny time, but I’m sure in any time you live in, you’d consider it funny because life is change and it’ll just keep doing that. It’s a matter of embracing it or not.”

— Toni Collette

11. “I think I’m true to myself – you hear that actors have like plans. I’m gonna do this type of movie, then I’m gonna play this kind of character, and that’ll get me from A to B. I’ve never done that. I honestly just follow my gut and I don’t think you can go wrong with that.”

— Toni Collette

12. “What I do affects others; what others do affects me.”

— Toni Collette

13. “I’m very happy with my lot. I like the variety I get. You don’t want to spend your life repeating yourself. It’s true of any kind of artist, you want to explore as wide and far as you can go, so that’s what I’ve been trying to do.”

— Toni Collette

14. “I don’t understand why I do what I do. I don’t understand why I act anymore. But I do know that I love it, and that I find it really interesting and satisfying to enter into other worlds and explore different ways of thinking.”

— Toni Collette

15. “Travelling’s so much better when you know you’ve got a lovely home to go back to.”

— Toni Collette

16. “It’s strange, because it seems that society is kind of promoting or nurturing this kind of ostracized existence. People are kind of very much in their own little worlds.”

— Toni Collette

17. “I’m glad that it was so physical and so isolated.”

— Toni Collette

18. “As far as kids go, at an early age they have to develop a sense of individuality. It’s just something that everyone goes through. But I think the older I get, the more I appreciate the fact that we really are just so connected.”

— Toni Collette

19. “I really believe in a oneness. So if I’m looking at somebody else, it’s not in a narcissistic way, but you’re kind of seeing yourself.”

— Toni Collette

20. “There are actors who are really fantastically talented at being natural on screen and appearing to be themselves, but I like the challenge of becoming somebody else.”

— Toni Collette

21. “I think it’s exciting to see actors do new things.”

— Toni Collette

22. “Being in the desert was brilliant and it was hard.”

— Toni Collette

23. “I don’t try to live the life of my character but I think it’s inevitable that there is some carry-over into your life.”

— Toni Collette

24. “I don’t mind where I work, it’s really nice to be able to travel around and taste the flavours of different countries.”

— Toni Collette

25. “Sometimes it was so quiet, its frightening. It really prioritizes things.”

— Toni Collette

26. “I think as with everything in life you’ve got to follow your gut. If you believe it wholeheartedly, then it’s not going to feel like you’re kind of pasting on an idea.”

— Toni Collette

27. “I grew up watching a lot of American television and so the American sound has been in my psyche somehow for a long time and is quite familiar and so that does make it easier.”

— Toni Collette

28. “I love kids, so working with them wasn’t a problem.”

— Toni Collette

29. “I’ve never really been a fan of violence. I’m more into the characters and their journey and those kinds of movies don’t really allow for that. It’s a different focus.”

— Toni Collette

30. “Also, I think having a musicality about me that helps in identifying different things in languages and getting them right.”

— Toni Collette

31. “To me, there are so many different things to believe in, but I think ultimately we’re all energy and that energy keeps changing.”

— Toni Collette

32. “I kind of realized I could sing, so I played around with that for a while. And that led me to acting in itself, which I came more passionate about by the age of 15.”

— Toni Collette

33. “I personally kind of yearn to play characters who are complex and who strike a truthful chord in me and who are challenged in some way and, I guess, who kind of move through those challenges.”

— Toni Collette

34. “I like being married, but it was never something I felt I had to do.”

— Toni Collette