Top 160 Abhaidev Quotes (2024 Update)

1. “A man is not mature unless he gets a certificate of maturity from a woman.”

— Abhaidev

2. “Life is a journey, my friend. And we never know whether we will reach our destination. So we shouldn’t care about that and enjoy the view while we are still travelling.”

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3. “Not all wars are worth fighting. Sometimes you just have to let it go.”

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4. “You don’t want a girlfriend. You want a therapist whom you can be intimate with.”

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5. “I know life is not rainbows and butterflies, but I’d rather die delusional than being a mature cynic.”

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6. “Yes, I curse God all the time. On some days for giving us such a short life, and on others for giving us such a long one.”

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7. “I feel, therefore, I am a fool.”

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8. “The only key to greatness is humiliation; self or public.”

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9. “People are hard to predict. The same music which moves one person to tears has little or no effect on the other.”

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10. “One should live one’s life in a way that the passage of time can’t be felt at all. The key is to keep yourself busy with unimportant things, and one day you’ll be no more. A mature man knows this fact very well and therefore keeps himself busy with things that shouldn’t, after all, matter to him.”

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11. “The problem with the world is that people are busy searching for keys but don’t know the locks that they would open.”

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12. “Love is not just something that happens. Love is what one decides to offer to someone.”

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13. “Only those who are intelligent can change their minds. The rest are damaged permanently due to indoctrination. A lower IQ makes a person less malleable.”

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14. “If God is really out there, then there are all the more reasons for free will to exist. If everything is predestined, what’s the fun in that? Humans must surprise the Almighty at times.”

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15. “Some are mature enough that they don’t speak their minds. Some are so mature that they know they are not mature.”

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16. “It is our expectation of how things should be, it is our anticipation of the future, which puts us in a state of misery.”

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17. “The best kind of love is the one that results in the profoundest level of melancholy. Longing for someone whom you have never been with or desiring someone, who, for some reason, can’t ever be yours, are the kinds of pain that must be embraced and endured. It’s a privilege to feel sad because of love. For it means the love has served its purpose. As it evoked the emotions in us that we were never ready for.”

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18. “All great men have been rebels. All great men were free. It is the only formula for greatness. To be stuck in the state of adolescence.”

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19. “Men and water shouldn’t stay at the same place for long.”

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20. “Even a pawn makes a move, sometimes two steps in the beginning. How small or limited it may be, it can never be overlooked. Remember, it is a pawn and only the pawn which gets promoted once it reaches the other side of the chessboard. If a pawn, saddened by its abilities, stops making any move, it can never evolve into something greater. We have to make moves, my friend, to progress.”

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21. “God is an idea. It prevents us from insanity,” he opined. “Moreover, it is satisfying to believe that this universe has an order.”

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22. “A soulful woman loves a man not for who he is, but for what he may become.”

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23. “If a son has a peaceful relationship with his father, if neither of them ever shows contempt for the other, then either the father is a fool, or the son is.”

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24. “What do you think all of us are here for? Certainly not to seek happiness. We are not here to enjoy. We are here to feel. Experiencing emotions is what human minds are made for. Emotions of every kind. A full gamut. A life spent on experiencing sentiments that lie at only one side of the spectrum is no life at all. We shouldn’t avoid grief. Instead, we should welcome despair in our lives with open arms. For it makes us who we are. It makes us complete.”

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25. “The process of becoming is of greater consequence than being.”

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26. “What do you think was the reason this universe sprung all of a sudden into existence from nothing? It was curiosity. What do you think was the reason why time was finally set into motion? It was curiosity. And why did the first single cell life appear on Earth? It was nothing but curiosity. It is curiosity, my dear friend, which is driving this whole universe.”

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27. “Ninety percent of the people are not happy with their jobs. The remaining ten percent don’t deserve their jobs in the first place.”

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28. “I believed my love would be reciprocated because it was pure. But it wasn’t. Reaction to every action? It doesn’t work that way with a human heart. Human mind resembles the quantum world. Always uncertain. Beyond any explanation.”

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29. “Not every kind of knowledge is good. One must confine one’s curiosity to a single direction.”

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30. “It’s a privilege to feel. And misery, my friend, is necessary. Otherwise, happiness would lose its charm.”

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31. “People do not undermine your ideas; they undermine you.”

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32. “Without deception, sexual attraction isn’t possible. Men deceive women in many ways, and women deceive men on a whole different, god-like level.”

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33. “Too much elite education renders a person unpractical. And tell you what? The highly educated people are further away from reality than the less educated ones. I would rather rely on the opinion of a less educated poor person who constantly deals with people, than an overly educated idiot who views this world only through an academic lens while sitting alone on his comfy couch.”

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34. “The measure of a man is his silence. The measure of a woman is her elocution. Beware of an overly talkative man and an inordinately silent woman.”

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35. “We don’t know how it works. But some people are able to read us telepathically. You know, our bare souls. Our sum of intentions. Our feelings. Our thought processes.”

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36. “You know, nothing is stronger than blood bonds. What else is the reason for the success of life insurance policies? Why bother with what happens to your blood relatives after your death? After all, you stop existing. Why then bother about what is happening to your kids, and why be concerned about what is happening on Earth even? Well, it’s because, after one’s final exit, one lives through one’s children.”

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37. “Funny, isn’t it? We blame politicians for being megalomaniacs. But secretly we all are. It’s just that most of us don’t get the opportunity or are in a position to exploit others.”

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38. “We are all limited by the choices we make, and once we make even one of them, we become hard-wired to choose similar options.”

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39. “Funny, isn’t it? We middle-class people secretly want that the poor should remain poor, as poverty is a necessary condition for an easy supply of servants. Yet out in the open, we pretend that the penury of the masses concerns us deeply. We hide who we are and wear masks. All of us.”

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40. “Male sexuality. So artless, so crass. Men are always over the edge, right? One little push and they tumble down the cliff.”

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41. “If you want to know what’s your boss is really like, go to his office with a resignation letter. You will then see your boss’s true colours. You will then see his emotions without any filters. No boss can ever fake himself in front of an employee who has just resigned.”

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42. “What is this human condition? Why are we never satisfied with the choices we make? What would it take to make us really happy?”

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43. “True freedom is solipsism. True freedom is believing that the world will cease to exist the moment you die. True freedom is realizing that only you have free will, while the others are mere puppets, hive minds. True freedom is, therefore, nothing less than insanity.”

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44. “Only those who matter in this world are accused of something. Accusations are part and parcel of fame.”

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45. “The search for meaning is as meaningless as the meaning itself.”

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46. “Too much is never too much, and just enough is enough.”

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47. “Unlike pain, happiness, no matter how big it is, doesn’t last long.”

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48. “People are weird. We all react differently as an individual, but as a group, we behave alike. Still, we can’t predict who the next celebrity would be.”

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49. “Sooner or later, at some point in your life, you’ll realize that money isn’t everything. Nor is happiness. No! We are not here to be happy. The aim of our life should be fulfilment. More than happiness, man seeks meaning. And when he finds it, his life becomes fulfilling.”

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50. “I believe that one is more successful in expressing oneself through written words rather than speaking. While speaking, one misses the details. But writing? Writing is different altogether. It gives us ample time to contemplate what we wish to communicate. As a result, the flow of our thoughts seems much more coherent.”

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