Top 500 Anne Lamott Quotes (2024 Update)
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151. “If God was giving me a ham, I’d be crazy not to receive it. Maybe it was the ham of God, who takes away the sins of the world.”

— Anne Lamott

152. “Help is the sunny side of control.”

— Anne Lamott

153. “It’s intrusive for grandparents to think they’re in charge. It’s manipulative. Also, it’s self-destructive, since if the parents have to resist you, you won’t get your mitts on the kid as often.”

— Anne Lamott

154. “Most of me was glad when my mother died. She was a handful, but not in a cute, festive way. More in a life-threatening way, that had caused me a long time ago to give up all hope of ever feeling good about having had her as a mother.”

— Anne Lamott

155. “I am going to notice the lights of the earth, the sun and the moon and the stars, the lights of our candles as we march, the lights with which spring teases us, the light that is already present.”

— Anne Lamott

156. “We, too, are shadow and light. We are not supposed to know this, or be all these different facets of humanity, bright and dark. We are raised to be bright and shiny, but there is meaning in the acceptance of our dusky and dappled side, and also in defiance.”

— Anne Lamott

157. “Where do we even start on the daily walk of restoration and awakening? We start where we are.”

— Anne Lamott

158. “To be great, art has to point somewhere.”

— Anne Lamott

159. “I am learning slowly to bring my crazy pinball-machine mind back to this place...”

— Anne Lamott

160. “I don’t think you have time to waste not writing because you are afraid you won’t be good enough at it, and I don’t think you have time to waste on someone who does not respond to you with kindness and respect. You don’t want to spend your time around people who make you hold your breath. You can’t fill up when you’re holding your breath.”

— Anne Lamott

161. “I am an Aries. Although I do not believe in astrology, I think this is exactly the right sign to have been born under.”

— Anne Lamott

162. “For me, Jesus is my cleft in the rock. He is my safest friend, my safe totally loving accepting big brother.”

— Anne Lamott

163. “Love falls to earth, rises from the ground, pools around the afflicted. Love pulls people back to their feet. Bodies and souls are fed. Bones and lives heal. New blades of grass grow from charred soil. The sun rises.”

— Anne Lamott

164. “Or you might shout at the top of your lungs or whisper into your sleeve, “I hate you, God.” That is a prayer too, because it is real, it is truth, and maybe it is the first sincere thought you’ve had in months.”

— Anne Lamott

165. “Some people won’t go the extra mile, and then on their birthday, when no one makes a fuss, they feel neglected and bitter.”

— Anne Lamott

166. “The world is always going to be dangerous, and people get badly banged up, but how can there be more meaning than helping one another stand up in a wind and stay warm?”

— Anne Lamott

167. “After a while the middle-aged person who lives in her head begins to talk to her soul, the kid.”

— Anne Lamott

168. “Then the singing enveloped me. It was furry and resonant, coming from everyone’s very heart. There was no sense of performance or judgment, only that the music was breath and food.”

— Anne Lamott

169. “Late Fragment And did you get what you wanted from this life even so? I did. And what did you want? To call myself beloved, to feel myself beloved on the earth. RAYMOND CARVER.”

— Anne Lamott

170. “You just have to keep getting out of your own way so that whatever it is that wants to be written can use you to write it.”

— Anne Lamott

171. “My idea of absolute happiness is to be in bed on a rainy day, with my blankie, my cat, and my dog.”

— Anne Lamott

172. “Everyone is screwed up, broken, clingy, and scared.”

— Anne Lamott

173. “You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories.”

— Anne Lamott

174. “My understanding of incarnation is that we are not served by getting away from the grubbiness of suffering. Sometimes we feel that we are barely pulling ourselves forward through a tight tunnel on badly scraped-up elbows. But we do come out the other side, exhausted and changed.”

— Anne Lamott

175. “A friend of mine says that the first draft is the down draft – you just get it down. The second draft is the up draft – you fix it up. You try to say what you have to say more accurately. And the third draft is the dental draft, where you check every tooth, to see if it’s loose or cramped or decayed, or even, God help us, healthy.”

— Anne Lamott

176. “We learn from pain that some of the things we thought were castles turn out to be prisons, and we desperately want out, but even though we built them, we can’t find the door. Yet maybe if you ask God for help in knowing which direction to face, you’ll have a moment of intuition. Maybe you’ll see at least one next right step you can take.”

— Anne Lamott

177. “I know some very great writers, writers you love who write beautifully and have made a great deal of money, and not one of them sits down routinely feeling wildly enthusiastic and confident. Not one of them writes elegant first drafts. All right, one of them does, but we do not like her very much. We do not think that she has a rich inner life or that God likes her or can even stand her.”

— Anne Lamott

178. “We were raised to believe in books, music, and nature.”

— Anne Lamott

179. “Life is really pretty tricky, and there’s a lot of loss, and the longer you stay alive, the more people you lose whom you actually couldn’t live without.”

— Anne Lamott

180. “I get to tell my truth. I get to seek meaning and realization. I get to live fully, wildly, imperfectly. That’s why I’m alive. And all I actually have to offer as a writer is my version of life. Every single thing that has happened to me is mine.”

— Anne Lamott

181. “When people shine a little light on their monster, we find out how similar most of our monsters are.”

— Anne Lamott

182. “My friend Terry says that when you need to make a decision, in your work or otherwise, and you don’t know what to do, just do one thing or the other, because the worst that can happen is that you will have made a terrible mistake.”

— Anne Lamott

183. “For some of us, good books and beautiful writing are our ultimate solace, even more comforting than exquisite food.”

— Anne Lamott

184. “A writer paradoxically seeks the truth and tells lies every step of the way. It’s a lie if you make something up. But you make it up in the name of truth, and then you give your heart to expressing it clearly.”

— Anne Lamott

185. “All I ever wanted since I arrived here on earth are the same things I needed as a baby, to go from cold to warm, lonely to held, the vessel to the giver, empty to full.”

— Anne Lamott

186. “We are a species that needs and wants to understand who we are. Sheep lice do not seem to share this longing, which is one reason why they write so little.”

— Anne Lamott

187. “Lies cannot nourish or protect you. Only freedom from fear, freedom from lies, can make us beautiful, and keep us safe.”

— Anne Lamott

188. “I just try to love and serve everyone, and bring everyone water, and lend an ear; that’s what Jesus said to do.”

— Anne Lamott

189. “The physical body is acknowledged as dust, the personal drama as delusion. It is as if the world we perceive through our senses, that whole gorgeous and terrible pageant, were the breath-thin surface of a bubble, and everything else, inside and outside, is pure radiance. Both suffering and joy come then like a brief reflection, and death like a pin.”

— Anne Lamott

190. “It is a violation of trust to use your kids as caulking for the cracks in you.”

— Anne Lamott

191. “If you’re lucky you find your way into a spiritual community and you start to find the great teachers of all the ages who said the same thing. There’s only love, you’re made of love.”

— Anne Lamott

192. “It’s funny: I always imagined when I was a kid that adults had some kind of inner toolbox full of shiny tools: the saw of discernment, the hammer of wisdom, the sandpaper of patience. But then when I grew up I found that life handed you these rusty bent old tools – friendships, prayer, conscience, honesty – and said ‘do the best you can with these, they will have to do’. And mostly, against all odds, they do.”

— Anne Lamott

193. “Writing has so much to give, so much to teach, so many surprises.”

— Anne Lamott

194. “I suspect that he was a child who thought differently than his peers, who may have had serious conversations with grown-ups, who as a young person, like me, accepted being alone quite a lot. I think that this sort of person often becomes either a writer or a career criminal.”

— Anne Lamott

195. “Laughter is the key that grace has arrived.”

— Anne Lamott

196. “The first holy truth in God 101 is that men and women of true faith have always had to accept the mystery of God’s identity and love and ways. I hate that, but it’s the truth.”

— Anne Lamott

197. “No one can appropriate God, goodness, the Bible or Jesus. It just seems that way.”

— Anne Lamott

198. “How alive am I willing to be?”

— Anne Lamott

199. “Your unconscious can’t work when you are breathing down its neck.”

— Anne Lamott

200. “Rituals are a good signal to your unconscious that it is time to kick in.”

— Anne Lamott