Top 350 Audre Lorde Quotes (2025 Update)
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251. “All our children are outriders for a queendom not yet assured.”

— Audre Lorde

252. “When we look away from the importance of the erotic in the development and sustenance of our power, or when we look away from ourselves as we satisfy our erotic needs in concert with others, we use each other as objects of satisfaction rather than share our joy in the satisfying, rather than make connection with our similarities and our differences.”

— Audre Lorde

253. “I train myself for triumph by knowing it is mine no matter what.”

— Audre Lorde

254. “I do not wish my anger and pain and fear about cancer to fossilize into yet another silence, nor to rob me of whatever strength can lie at the core of this experience, openly acknowledged and examined... imposed silence about any area of our lives is a tool for separation and powerlessness.”

— Audre Lorde

255. “We cannot settle for the pretenses of connection, or for the parodies of self-love.”

— Audre Lorde

256. “We’re supposed to see “universal” love as heterosexual. What I insist upon in my work is that there is no such thing as universal love in literature.”

— Audre Lorde

257. “No woman is responsible for altering the psyche of her oppressor, even when that psyche is embodied in another woman.”

— Audre Lorde

258. “Unless we develop some cohesive vision of that world in which we hope these children will participate, and some sense of our own responsibilities in the shaping of that world, we will only raise new performers in the master’s sorry drama.”

— Audre Lorde

259. “Some problems we share as women, some we do not. You fear your children will grow up to join the patriarchy and testify against you; we fear our children will be dragged from a car and shot down in the street, and you will turn your backs on the reasons they are dying.”

— Audre Lorde

260. “We can learn to work and speak when we are afraid in the same way we have learned to work and speak when we are tired. For we have been socialized to respect fear more than our own needs for language and definition, and while we wait in silence for that final luxury of fearlessness, the weight of that silence will choke us.”

— Audre Lorde

261. “The failure of academic feminists to recognize difference as a crucial strength is a failure to reach beyond the first patriarchal lesson. In our world, divide and conquer must become define and empower.”

— Audre Lorde

262. “I knew what it was like to be haunted by the ghost of a self one wished to be, but only half-sensed.”

— Audre Lorde

263. “We have the power those who came before us have given us, to move beyond the place where they were standing. We have the trees, and water, and sun, and our children. Malcolm X does not live in the dry texts of his words as we read them; he lives in the energy we generate and use to move along the visions we share with him. We are making the future as well as bonding to survive the enormous pressures of the present, and that is what it means to be a part of history.”

— Audre Lorde

264. “When we admit and deal with difference; when we deal with the deep bitterness; when we deal with the horror of even our different nightmares; when we turn them and look at them, it’s like looking at death: hard but possible. If you look at it directly without embracing it, then there is much less that you can ever be made to fear.”

— Audre Lorde

265. “The tensions created inside me by the contradictions is another source of energy and learning. I have always known I learn my most lasting lessons about difference by closely attending the ways in which the differences inside me lie down together.”

— Audre Lorde

266. “Interdependency between women is the way to a freedom which allows the I to be, not in order to be used, but in order to be creative. This is a difference between the passive be and the active being.”

— Audre Lorde

267. “In discussions around the hiring and firing of Black faculty at universities, the charge is frequently heard that Black women are more easily hired than are Black men.”

— Audre Lorde

268. “It’s difficult to talk about double messages without having a twin tongue.”

— Audre Lorde

269. “We have been raised to fear the yes within ourselves, our deepest cravings. For the demands of our released expectations lead us inevitably into actions which will help bring our lives into accordance with our needs, our knowledge, our desires. And the fear of our deepest cravings keeps them suspect, keeps us docile and loyal and obedient, and leads us to settle for or accept many facets of our oppression as women.”

— Audre Lorde

270. “The sixties were characterized by a heady belief in instantaneous solutions.”

— Audre Lorde

271. “One pays a lot, we all pay a lot, for awareness.”

— Audre Lorde

272. “I believe one of the hardest things you can do is conquer your fears, but if you have a goal, then it’s your job to open up and let it be real no matter how scary it seems.”

— Audre Lorde

273. “To acknowledge privilege is the first step in making it available for wider use. Each of us is blessed in some particular way, whether we recognize our blessings or not.”

— Audre Lorde

274. “Too often, we pour the energy needed for recognizing and exploring difference into pretending those differences are insurmountable barriers, or that they do not exist at all.”

— Audre Lorde

275. “Did you ever read my words, or did you merely finger through them for quotations which you thought might valuably support an already conceived idea concerning some old and distorted connection between us?”

— Audre Lorde

276. “DeLois lived up the block on 142nd Street and never had her hair done, and all the neighbourhood women sucked their teeth as she walked by. Her crispy hair twinkled in the summer sun as her big proud stomach moved her on down the block while I watched, not caring whether or not she was a poem.”

— Audre Lorde

277. “Decisions to cut aid for the terminally ill, for the elderly, for dependent children, for food stamps, even school lunches, are being made by men with full stomachs who live in comfortable houses with two cars and umpteen tax shelters. None of them go hungry to bed at night.”

— Audre Lorde

278. “Say what you have to say now! Don’t wait until you’re sending blips from the other side.”

— Audre Lorde

279. “What happens when you narrow your definition to what is convenient, or what is fashionable, or what is expected, is dishonesty by silence.”

— Audre Lorde

280. “As a living creature I am part of two kinds of forces- growth and decay, sprouting and withering, living and dying- and at any given moment of our lives, each one of us is actively located somewhere along a continuum between these two forces.”

— Audre Lorde

281. “Black women have on one hand always been highly visible, and so, on the other hand, have been rendered invisible through the depersonalization of racism.”

— Audre Lorde

282. “I seek no favor untouched by blood.”

— Audre Lorde

283. “And yes, it is very difficult to stand still and to listen to another woman’s voice delineate an agony I do not share, or one to which I myself have contributed.”

— Audre Lorde

284. “When we create out of our experiences, as feminists of color, women of color, we have to develop those structures that will present and circulate our culture.”

— Audre Lorde

285. “We have been sad long enough to make this earth either weep or grow fertile.”

— Audre Lorde

286. “As the light wanes I see what I thought I was anxious to surrender I am only willing to lend.”

— Audre Lorde

287. “I heard my old friend Clem’s voice coming back to me through the dimness of thirty years: “I see you coming here trying to make sense where there is no sense. Try just living in it. Respond, alter, see what happens.” I thought of the African way of perceiving life, as experience to be lived rather than as problem to be solved.”

— Audre Lorde

288. “Any world which did not have a place for me loving women was not a world in which I wanted to live, nor one which I could fight for.”

— Audre Lorde

289. “I sit before the typewriter and nothing comes. If feels as if underlining these assaults, lining them up one after the other and looking at them squarely might give them an unbearable power. Yet, I know that the opposite is true-no matter how difficult it may be to look at the realities of our lives, it is there that we will find the strength to change them. And to suppress any truth is to give it power beyond endurance.”

— Audre Lorde

290. “But the erotic offers a well of replenishing and provocative force to the woman who does not fear its revelation, nor succumb to the belief that sensation is enough.”

— Audre Lorde

291. “Those of us who stand outside the circle of this society’s definition of acceptable women; those of us who have been forged in the crucibles of difference – those of us who are poor, who are lesbians, who are black, who are older – know that survival is not an academic skill... For the master’s tools will not dismantle the master’s house. They will never allow us to bring about genuine change.”

— Audre Lorde

292. “In the interests of separation, Black women have been taught to view each other as always suspect, heartless competitors for the scarce male, the all-important prize that could legitimize our existence. This dehumanizing denial of self is no less lethal than the dehumanization of racism to which it is so closely allied.”

— Audre Lorde

293. “I wanted to write in my journal but couldn’t bring myself to. There are so many shades to what passed through me in those days. And I would shrink from committing myself to paper because the light would change before the word was out, the ink was dry.”

— Audre Lorde

294. “Men avoid women’s observations by accusing us of being too “visceral”.”

— Audre Lorde

295. “I feel not to be open about who I am in all respects places a certain kind of expectation on me I’m just not into meeting any more.”

— Audre Lorde

296. “What does it mean when the tools of a racist patriarchy are used to examine the fruits of that same patriarchy? It means that only the most narrow perimeters of change are possible and allowable.”

— Audre Lorde

297. “If this society ascribes roles to Black men which they are not allowed to fulfill, is it Black women who must bend and alter our lives to compensate, or is it society that needs changing?”

— Audre Lorde

298. “It has been said that Black men cannot be denied their personal choice of the woman who meets their need to dominate. In that case, Black women also cannot be denied our personal choices, and those choices are becoming increasingly self-assertive and female oriented.”

— Audre Lorde

299. “In order to work together we do not have to become a mix of indistinguishable particles resembling a vat of homogenized chocolate milk. Unity implies the coming together of elements which are, to begin with, varied and diverse in their particular natures. Our persistence in examining the tensions within diversity encourages growth toward our common goal.”

— Audre Lorde

300. “It is the images of women, kind and cruel, that lead me home.”

— Audre Lorde