Top 160 Chip Heath Quotes (2025 Update)
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101. “Stories are flight simulators for our brains.”

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102. “It changed their attitude from reactive and critical to active and creative.”

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103. “Here’s how it happens: One person reveals something and waits to see if the other person will share something back. The reciprocity, if it comes, is a sign of understanding, validation, and caring. I’ve heard you, I understand and accept what you’re saying, and I care for you enough to disclose something about myself. An unresponsive partner – like a seatmate on a flight who puts on his headphones shortly after you make a comment – terminates the reciprocity, freezing the relationship.”

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104. “If you want to be part of a group that bonds like cement, take on a really demanding task that’s deeply meaningful. All of you will remember it for the rest of your lives.”

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105. “Some analogies are so useful that they don’t merely shed light on a concept, they actually become platforms for novel thinking. For example, the metaphor of the brain as a computer has been central to the insights generated by cognitive psychologists during the past fifty years.”

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106. “Transitions should be marked, milestones commemorated, and pits filled.”

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107. “The more hooks an idea has, the better it will cling to memory.”

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108. “Good ideas are often adopted quickly. When all retailers adopt centralized checkout as a “best practice,” it’s no longer a competitive advantage for anyone.”

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109. “The problem is this: Often the heart and mind disagree. Fervently.”

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110. “Sportsmanship” had been stretched too far. Like “relativity,” it had migrated far afield from its original meaning. It used to refer to the kind of behavior that Lance Armstrong showed Jan Ullrich. But over time the term was stretched to include unimpressive, nonchivalrous behavior, like losing without whining too much or making it through an entire game without assaulting a referee.”

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111. “What they realized was that they didn’t need their colleagues to understand something, they needed them to feel something.”

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112. “If we want more moments of connection, we need to be more responsive to others.”

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113. “Most PowerPoints aren’t creating a lot of emotion. We decided to flip this on its head. Let’s have people do something active and immersive. That’s going to generate more of an emotional response so they will feel something. And then they can think about what they’ve learned.”

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114. “Rather than focusing solely on what’s new and different about the change to come, make an effort to remind people what’s already been conquered.”

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115. “When Blakely and her brother were growing up, her father would ask them a question every week at the dinner table: “What did you guys fail at this week?” “If we had nothing to tell him, he’d be disappointed,” Blakely said. “The logic seems counterintuitive, but it worked beautifully. He knew that many people become paralyzed by the fear of failure.”

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116. “What’s working, and how can we do more of it?” Sounds simple, doesn’t it? Yet, in the real world, this obvious question is almost never asked. Instead, the question we ask is more problem focused: “What’s broken, and how do we fix it?”

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117. “Say your husband wants to start a business creating topiary sculptures for clients. You think the idea is bonkers, but you admire his passion, so it seems cruel to veto it. Instead, set a tripwire. Okay, dear, let’s give the topiary-sculpture business a shot, but can we agree that we won’t invest more than $10,000 of our savings in it? Alternatively, you might say: Go for it, but if you don’t have a paying customer within three months, let’s talk seriously about Plan B.”

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118. “Any new quest, even one that is ultimately successful, is going to involve failure.”

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119. “What would I tell my best friend to do in this situation?”

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120. “In the identity model3 of decision making, we essentially ask ourselves three questions when we have a decision to make: Who am I? What kind of situation is this? What would someone like me do in this situation?”

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121. “You want to invent new ideas, not new rules.”

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122. “This is how concreteness helps us understand – it helps us construct higher, more abstract insights on the building blocks of our existing knowledge and perceptions. Abstraction demands some concrete foundation. Trying to teach an abstract principle without concrete foundations is like trying to start a house by building a roof in the air.”

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123. “When the researchers compared whether process or analysis was more important in producing good decisions – those that increased revenues, profits, and market share – they found that “process mattered more than analysis – by a factor of six.” Often a good process led to better analysis – for instance, by ferreting out faulty logic.”

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124. “Our struggles with e-mail are a bit pathetic, but the larger topic is worth considering: Is it possible to design an environment in which undesired behaviors – whether yours or your colleagues’ – are made not only harder but impossible? As it turns out, lots of people actually make their living contemplating how to wipe out the wrong kinds of behaviors.”

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125. “So how can you avoid letting these subtle emotions get the best of you? Get some distance.”

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126. “When responsiveness is coupled with openness, though, intimacy can develop quickly.”

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127. “Many armies fail because they put all their emphasis into creating a plan that becomes useless ten minutes into the battle.”

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128. “What did you guys fail at this week?” “If we had nothing to tell him, he’d be disappointed,” Blakely said.”

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129. “My father wanted us to try everything and feel free to push the envelope. His attitude taught me to define failure as not trying something I want to do instead of not achieving the right outcome.”

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130. “Good metaphors are “generative.”13 The psychologist Donald Schon introduced this term to describe metaphors that generate “new perceptions, explanations, and inventions.” Many.”

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131. “People are tempted to tell you everything, with perfect accuracy, right up front, when they should be giving you just enough info to be useful, then a little more, then a little more.”

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132. “The advice we give others, then, has two big advantages: It naturally prioritizes the most important factors in the decision, and it downplays short-term emotions.”

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133. “What’s least commonsensical is that pits can sometimes be flipped into peaks.”

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134. “Studies of the elderly show that people regret not what they did but what they didn’t do.”

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135. “But they were devout Catholics, and they had tremendous faith in their marriage. She said that every night, after a tough day, they’d put their hands together in bed so that their rings touched, and they’d repeat their wedding vows to each other.”

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136. “The status quo feels comfortable and steady because much of the choice has been squeezed out. You have your routines, your ways of doing things.”

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137. “Most analysts are SO SMART and have amazing ideas, but they can’t convey their genius ideas to others.”

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138. “The style is not important. What’s important is authenticity: being personal not programmatic. And frequency: closer to weekly than yearly. And of course what’s most important is the message: “I saw what you did and I appreciate it.”

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139. “We want what we might call a destination postcard – a vivid picture from the near-term future that shows what could be possible. That.”

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140. “Any time in life you’re tempted to think, ‘Should I do this OR that?’ instead, ask yourself, ‘Is there a way I can do this AND that?”

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141. “If the Rider isn’t sure exactly what direction to go, he tends to lead the Elephant in circles. And as we’ll see, that tendency explains the third and final surprise about change: What looks like resistance is often a lack of clarity.”

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142. “So if you reach the Riders of your team but not the Elephants, team members will have understanding without motivation. If you reach their Elephants but not their Riders, they’ll have passion without direction. In.”

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143. “Make the change small enough that they can’t help but score a victory.”

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144. “One of his friends, a marketing professor at Stanford, said, “Think about this from a marketing perspective. We can change behavior in a short television ad. We don’t do it with information. We do it with identity: ‘If I buy a BMW, I’m going to be this kind of person.”

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145. “What have you failed at this week?”

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146. “Many people have discovered that, when it comes to changing their own behavior, environmental tweaks beat self-control every time.”

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147. “We all have defining moments in our lives – meaningful experiences that stand out in our memory. Many of them owe a great deal to chance: A lucky encounter with someone who becomes the love of your life. A new teacher who spots a talent you didn’t know you had. A sudden loss that upends the certainties of your life.”

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148. “Until you can ladder your way down from a change idea to a specific behavior, you’re not ready to lead a switch. To create movement, you’ve got to be specific and be concrete. You’ve got to emulate 1% milk and flee from the Food Pyramid.”

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149. “The growth mindset, then, is a buffer against defeatism. It reframes failure as a natural part of the change process. And that’s critical, because people will persevere only if they perceive falling down as learning rather than as failing.”

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150. “If a message can’t be used to make predictions or decisions, it is without value, no matter how accurate or comprehensive it is.”

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