Top 500 Jonathan Safran Foer Quotes (2024 Update)
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451. “Sitting with her now, rehearsing the horrible conversation, Jacob wondered if maybe, all those years, he had misunderstood the spaces surrounding Julia: her quiet, her steps back. Maybe they weren’t buffers of defense, but of the most extreme humility, the purest generosity. What if she wasn’t withdrawing, but beckoning? Or both at the same time? Withdrawing and beckoning? And more to the point: making a world for their children, even for Jacob.”

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452. “Encoded into our language is the understanding that disasters tend to expose that which was previously hidden. As the planetary crisis unfolds as a series of emergencies, our decisions will reveal who we are.”

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453. “I am the one who broke the rule. But I am the one who made the rule you couldn’t live with.”

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454. “I have made my own choice, which is vegetarianism, but it’s not the choice I’m imposing on anybody else.”

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455. “Once upon a time, USDA inspectors had to condemn any bird with such fecal contamination. But about thirty years ago, the poultry industry convinced the USDA to reclassify feces so that it could continue to use these automatic eviscerators. Once a dangerous contaminant, feces are now classified as a “cosmetic blemish.”

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456. “They learned to hate her unknowability, her untouchability, the collage of her.”

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457. “I am a mother, she thought – not an answer to the question being asked, and no more her ultimate ambition than happiness, but her ultimate identity.”

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458. “In my dream, people apologized for things that were about to happen, and lit candles by inhaling.”

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459. “God loves the plagiarist. And so it is written, ‘God created humankind in His image, in the image of God He created them.” God is the original plagiarizer. With a lack of reasonable sources from which to filch – man created in the image of what? the animals? – the creation of man was an act of reflexive plagiarizing; God looted the mirror. When we plagiarize, we are likewise creating in the image and participating in the completion of Creation.”

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460. “They lay in silence, thinking their own thoughts, each trying to know the other’s. They were becoming strangers on top of each other.”

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461. “Almost always when I told someone I was writing a book about “eating animals”, they assumed, even without knowing anything about my views, that it was a case for vegetarianism. It’s a telling assumption, one that implies not only that a thorough inquiry into animal agriculture would lead one away from eating meat, but that most people already know that to be the case.”

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462. “It is not a thing that you can imagine. It only is. After that, there can be no imagining.”

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463. “But when, at the end of my sophomore year, I became a philosophy major and started doing my first seriously pretentious thinking, I became a vegetarian again. The kind of willful forgetting that I was sure meat eating required felt too paradoxical to the intellectual life I was trying to shape. I thought life could, should, and must conform to the mold of reason. You can imagine how annoying this made me.”

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464. “I wouldn’t want a boy to think I was pretty unless he was the kind of boy who thought I was pretty.”

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465. “Jewish-motherly.”

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466. “If god exists, he is not to be believed in.”

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467. “Is this why you think you are chosen by God, because only you can understand the funnies that you make about yourself?”

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468. “You only get to keep what you refuse to let go of.”

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469. “Why I’m Not Where You Are.”

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470. “Or maybe what he fears is just the opposite: that nobody is looking; that his death, like his life, is without purpose; that there is neither greater good nor evil – only people living and dying because their bodies function and then do not; that the universe is a rip.”

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471. “It seems entirely possible to me that horrible things can be going on without us becoming horrible people.”

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472. “When I got off the plane, after eleven hours of travel and forty years away, the man took my passport and asked me the purpose of my visit, I wrote in my daybook, “To mourn,” and then, “To mourn try to live,” he gave me a look and asked if I would consider that business or pleasure, I wrote, “Neither.” “For how long do you plan to mourn and try to live?” “For as long as I can.” “Are we talking about a weekend or a year?” I didn’t write anything. The man said, “Next.”

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473. “Highs and lows make you feel that things matter, but they’re nothing.” “So what’s something?” “Being reliable is something. Being good.”

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474. “I am very simple to enchant.”

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475. “Good people don’t make fewer mistakes, they’re just better at apologizing.”

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476. “Blessings are just curses that other people envy.”

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477. “I can only hold on to the things I want to lose.”

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478. “In the struggle between yourself and the world, side with the world.”

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479. “Make us better than we are. Make us good.”

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480. “He couldn’t bear to live, but he couldn’t bear to die. He couldn’t bear the thought of he making love to someone else, but neither could he bear the absence of the thought. And as for the note, he couldn’t bear to keep it, but he couldn’t bear to destroy it either.”

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481. “He was caught somewhere between his mother’s last kiss and the first kiss he would give his child, between the war that was and would be.”

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482. “The persistence of the story of animal consent into the contemporary era tells of a human appreciation of the stakes, and a desire to do the right thing.”

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483. “Che rimpianto, pensare che serve una vita per imparare a vivere, Oskar.”

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484. “One hundred years of joy can be erased in one second.”

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485. “I could not believe in a God that would challenge faith like this.”

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486. “It’s a rule that we never listen to sad music, we made that rule early on, songs are as sad as the listener, we hardly ever listen to music.”

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487. “Is that growing old? Or is it something worse?”

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488. “Life is precious, Jacob thought. The most important of all thoughts, and the most obvious, and the most difficult to remember to have. How different my life would have been if I could have had that thought before I was forced to.”

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489. “Is God sad? He would have to exist to be sad, wouldn’t He? I know, she said, giving his shoulder a little slap. That’s why I was asking, so I might finally know if you believed! Well, let me leave it at this: if God does exist, He would have a great deal to be sad about. And if He doesn’t exist, then that too would make Him quite sad, I imagine. So to answer your question, God must be sad.”

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490. “I have witnessed Grandfather cry, and I implore myself to say that I desire to never witness him cry again. If this signifies that I must do things for him so that he will not cry, then I will do those things. If this signifies that I must not look when he cries, then I will not look.”

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491. “Hold on. Now you’re calling Sam a racist?” “I did not say that, Mr. Bloch.” “You did. You just did. Julia – ” “I don’t remember his exact words.” “I said, ‘Racism has no place here.’” “Racism is what racists express.” “Have you ever lied, Mr. Bloch?” Jacob reflexively searched his jacket pocket yet again for his phone. “I assume that, like everyone who has ever lived, you have told a lie. But that doesn’t make you a liar.”

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492. “Parents don’t have the luxury of being reasonable, not any more than a religious person does. What can make religious people and parents so utterly insufferable is also what makes religion and Parenthood so utterly beautiful: the All or nothing wager. The Faith.”

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493. “The older one gets, the harder it is to account for time. Children ask: “Are we there yet?” Adults: “How did we get here so quickly?”

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494. “It’s very hard to have a productive dialogue with a thirteen-year-old boy, as every gently broached subject becomes an Ultimate Conversation, requiring defense systems and counterattacks to attacks that were never launched. What begins as an innocent observation about his habit of leaving things in the pockets of dirty clothes ends with Sam blaming his parents for his twenty-eighth-percentile height, which makes him want to commit suicide on YouTube.”

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495. “The more you love someone, he came to think, the harder it is to tell them.”

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496. “At first I thought I’d walked into a tree, but then that tree became a person, who was also recovering on the ground, and then I saw that it was her and she saw that it was me...”

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497. “And nothing inspires as much shame as being a parent. Children confront us with our paradoxes and hypocrisies, and we are exposed. You need to find an answer for every why – Why do we do this? Why don’t we do that? – and often there isn’t a good one. So you say, simply, because. Or you tell a story that you know isn’t true. And whether or not your face reddens, you blush. The shame of parenthood – which is a good shame – is that we want our children to be more whole than we are, to have satisfactory answers.”

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498. “Should he one day share it and be asked how autobiographical it was, he would say, “It’s not my life, but it’s me.”

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499. “Sometimes feelings are like that – not positive, not negative, just a lot.”

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500. “It might sound fantastic, but when we bother to look, it’s hard to deny that our day-to-day choices shape the world.”

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