Top 90 Sarah Hogle Quotes (2025 Update)

1. “Give yourself permission to put yourself first.”

— Sarah Hogle

2. “You are, and always will be, the most beautiful person I’ve ever known.”

— Sarah Hogle

3. “Not to be dramatic, but I would rather drink battery acid than be in the throes of a crush.”

— Sarah Hogle

4. “You’re allowed to defend yourself when people hurt your feelings. You deserve to be around people who are good to you.” Coming.”

— Sarah Hogle

5. “You’re my best friend, too. I have more fun with you than anyone else, and I like how you challenge me. I like being around you and when I’m not around you, I’m always thinking about you. I want you to know I’m thinking about you all the time.”

— Sarah Hogle

6. “She’s worth the pain of trying. Worth the risk of failing.”

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7. “I will always support you, even if it doesn’t look like it. Sometimes support looks like disagreeing with you or telling you that you’re on the wrong path. But your heart is in my heart, always, and all I want for you is a good, healthy life.”

— Sarah Hogle

8. “He’s the most beautiful human I’ve ever seen.”

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9. “I’m miffed with him for being such an I-told-you-so kind of person, which prevents me from coming clean. I’m forced to be just as stubborn as he is irritating.”

— Sarah Hogle

10. “I didn’t contour a third of my body with this much highlighter to not get any of it on his shirt.”

— Sarah Hogle

11. “But I’ve got news for Nicholas Benjamin Rose: if he thinks I’m not the biggest waste of time that’s ever happened to him, he’s got another think coming.”

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12. “When you build a life with someone, so many of your building blocks prop up your partner, and you’re propped up by theirs, until your foundations merge and walking away risks destabilization for you both.”

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13. “We plot how to ruin each other’s lives.”

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14. “One morning after Nicholas’s shower, I draw a heart in the steamy bathroom mirror. He ducks back into the bathroom to brush his teeth and after he’s left it again I find another heart he’s drawn, interlocked with mine.”

— Sarah Hogle

15. “I would, and I’d want to be here for you. Support you and make you feel better. I want you to tell me when you get bad news so you’re not going through it alone.”

— Sarah Hogle

16. “He heaves a deep breath. Wipes a tear away with his thumb. “I’m here, okay?” He grasps my shoulder and squeezes gently. “These aren’t platitudes. I’m right here. And I want to listen. Whenever you’re sad, I want to hear why. I want to know what you’re feeling, all the time, so I can share those feelings with you.”

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17. “If he asks me what’s wrong and my issue isn’t one he can make go away with a few reassuring words, Nicholas gets frustrated. It reminds me of my mother once saying that you can’t tell men about your unfixable problems, because they’ll want to fix them and not being able to do so fries their wiring.”

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18. “The beginnings are so sparkly, so efortless. You can imagine the other person to be whoever you want. In all the gaps of your knowledge about them, you can paint in whatever qualities you like as placeholders. You can paint the other person into a dream impossible for them to live up to.”

— Sarah Hogle

19. “We’re going to have to choose each other, over and over, and be each other’s champion, never letting ourselves forget the good whenever we’re stuck in a patch of bad.”

— Sarah Hogle

20. “Societal norms have conditioned me into thinking I need these dying plants in order to feel loved and appreciated.”

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21. “He should assume that all of my lies are true.”

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22. “I think he’s under a curse – if he laughs, he’ll die. This is a sensible explanation to me. It isn’t that I’m not a joy to be around, it’s that he’ll literally die.”

— Sarah Hogle

23. “Pregnancy for me at this point would indicate immaculate conception.”

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24. “He calls it his office or his study and in my head I still call it the drawing room, because in a past life I was a duchess and I’ve never quite gotten over being reborn as a commoner in this age.”

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25. “I think you are beautiful, too, Maybell. I think that you walked into my life and absolutely ruined it with how beautiful you are.”

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26. “It’s been too long since I’ve felt heard by anyone.”

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27. “I tried to keep him at a safe distance where he could only see the decent parts of me and it made us both miserable. I inadvertently let him in to see the ugly parts but instead of running away like I’d counted on him to do, he wrapped his arms around all of that ugliness and didn’t let go.”

— Sarah Hogle

28. “He didn’t get me flowers for our anniversary, either, and that’s okay because we know what Real Love is and we don’t have to prove ourselves to each other.”

— Sarah Hogle

29. “We’re in the car on the way to see Debberoni and Harry.”

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30. “During an argument that we had,” he tells me, pitch low, “you called me beautiful. And an insufferable ass. But beautiful. I haven’t gotten over it.”

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31. “We eat in companionable silence as the snow falls steadily around us and darkness smothers the world.”

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32. “It dawns on me that I haven’t seen him genuinely happy in forever. I’ve been so concentrated on my own unhappiness that I haven’t noticed his. I’ve been fooling myself by thinking he’s been content all along. How arrogant, to assume he was content with me when I so obviously wasn’t content with him.”

— Sarah Hogle

33. “It hits me how much I like his laugh.”

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34. “I think you’re beautiful no matter what.”

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35. “You ever think you were single for no reason and then you meet someone and realize you’ve been waiting for them without knowing it?”

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36. “You wanna give me some space?” “Well, you’re not saying anything.” “I’m talking to myself right now. Give us a minute.”

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37. “It’s an empty gesture, a dark condemnation. In all the places it’s supposed to please, it stings instead.”

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38. “He needs me to give voice to my feelings, because he’s not a mind reader and it’s not okay that I soak up what he gives without offering myself in return. I can’t let him think he’s alone, not for one moment.”

— Sarah Hogle

39. “I’m not that strong at all but for you, I can be strong enough.”

— Sarah Hogle

40. “Unhinged” is my new favorite look on him.”

— Sarah Hogle

41. “I know every microscopic detail of his face. I know the shape of his brows for every emotion. He is the most beautiful man who ever lived, and at one time I couldn’t have said with any certainty what color eyes he had. He was no more memorable that a picture hanging on the wall that I’d long gotten used to. How many times did my gaze pass right over him, not realizing he was looking back at me? Always watching. Listening. Waiting.”

— Sarah Hogle

42. “You are perfect.”

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43. “But it’s hard to meet people when you have social anxiety as bad as I do. I panic. Or I want to say one thing, be a certain way, but it gets all tangled up on its way out of my mouth. A pumpkin trying to be flowers and coming off like a cactus. It’s frustrating.”

— Sarah Hogle

44. “The thing about a wedding is: you don’t remember the vows. You forget them the second after your mouth utters the sacred words, because your brain needs the room to catalog every detail of your partner’s face. All of my concentration is on him. Everything is wonderful. Every day is the same. Every day is like our wedding day.”

— Sarah Hogle

45. “I’ll grow you some real ones, if you like.”

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46. “This is how I’ll die: slightly unwilling but ultimately lazy.”

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47. “It’s sexist to assume I wouldn’t know how to fix leaky hoses and sanding belts and whatever else makes a car go vroom. He should assume that all of my lies are true.”

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48. “Stacy can choke on store-bought sugar cookies like the rest of us. Why’s he even bringing them? They’re dentists. They should be eating celery.”

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49. “It’s adorable how he assumes I’m in here making myself pretty instead of smearing a pentagram on the floor in my own blood and casting hexes on him.”

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50. “It feels so lovely to be good to each other.”

— Sarah Hogle