Top 380 Iyanla Vanzant Quotes (2023 Update)
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151. “Life gives you an endless supply of do-overs.”

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152. “Listen for the instruction, instead of begging for the direction.”

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153. “Life doesn’t actually knock you down. It does, however, provide you with many opportunities to evaluate your standing in life: what you stand on, what you stand for, how you stand within yourself and for yourself.”

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154. “To forgive your mother opens and heals your heart.”

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155. “Our minds work like a garden. It is fertile ground that accepts any and everything we plant. Good or evil, constructive or destructive, our lives will bear the fruit of the seeds we plant in our minds.”

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156. “Pain is pain, hurt is hurt, fear is fear, anger is anger, and it has no color.”

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157. “More often than not, the things we detest and judge in others are a reflection of the things we cannot accept about ourselves.”

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158. “You do not have to love what is going on in your life, but you must accept that it, whatever it is, is going on. As long as you do not accept reality, you are powerless to define the role you will play.”

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159. “We must each learn to feel comfortable in our own uniqueness by rising above the fear of being wrong and the aversion to being different.”

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160. “Everyone is always looking for their beloved. Well, why can’t you be your own beloved? Fall in love with yourself.”

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161. “Instead of running from what you don’t want, walk with commitment toward what you desire. Focus on where you are going rather than being obsessed with where you have been.”

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162. “Forgiveness leads to a shift in perception. It transforms the hurt into healing.”

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163. “The bottom line intention of Trust is this: You must commit to building your trust muscles on a daily basis through spiritual practice. Because trust is an inner process, the development and deepening of trust can happen only within you. That is why a consistent spiritual practice is so critical. It is the means by which you can reach the point within yourself where you know and accept that no matter what happens, you will be okay. You.”

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164. “Before you find out who you are, you have to figure out who you aren’t...”

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165. “Just give yourself permission to tell the truth to yourself.”

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166. “When you make a decision and a commitment to do something good for yourself, it is like dropping a pebble in a pond. It has a rippling effect. The firmer the decision, the stronger the frequency and wider the range of things that will be reached.”

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167. “When we want to move beyond the pain, when we want to feel better, when we are ready to move beyond where we are, emotionally and spiritually, we must forgive.”

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168. “Forgiveness is not forgetting; it is simply denying your pain the right to control your life.”

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169. “Stop chasing things that are beneath the truth of who you are. Stop holding on to things and people that weigh you down. Stop behaving in ways that don’t honor the divinity and nobility within you.”

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170. “When you refuse to pay attention to what life is saying to you, life will make its point very clear. Life wants us to be aware of ourselves so we can make the necessary adjustments in order to live more harmoniously.”

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171. “The heart and the spirit also shed. They shed the emotions and experiences that we no longer need. They shed the things that stunt our growth. This, too, is an invisible process. Yet because of the energy involved, the emotional energy, we often feel the emotional and spiritual shedding. It feels as if we are dying. We are. Just like the flowers and the trees, we are dying to an old identity. This shedding, or death, is not the end of us. It is the beginning.”

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172. “If you want a real experience of serenity, look for the good. Affirm the good. Acknowledge the good.”

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173. “Your interests will guide you. Give no concern to what they say you cannot do. Be willing to accept the challenge. Take time to retreat to that quiet place within the pit of your soul and unleash your right to decide what is best for you.”

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174. “I see a couple of things missing. Any society, any community, even in the family, when the elders don’t do their jobs, the youth suffer. We have no done our job. I’m saying anybody 55 and up. We didn’t teach people the basic things.”

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175. “You are not being tested! You are being fortified! Remember, you cannot fail!”

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176. “The only thing that goes on in your life is what your allow to go on in your life.”

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177. “Each person represents a microcosm of the world in which we live – where anger and fear, confusion and isolation, lack of faith and a wanton disregard for the divine process of life causes people to act against their true nature. Since our true nature is to be trusting, every small violation of individual trust creates a ripple effect that ultimately impacts the entire world in which we live. That’s how important we are as individuals, and that’s how powerful trust is in our lives.”

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178. “When you are starting your life over, with a new sense of self, who you once were is going to challenge you. Who you once were is going to dangle old carrots, old wounds and issues, in front of your face. When that happens, you will be tempted to revert to old feelings, old patterns of thought, and old patterns of behavior.”

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179. “The key to success is not what you do, it is how you feel about what you are doing.”

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180. “It is not what you hear, it is where you listen from within yourself that gives meaning to the message.”

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181. “When you spend more time being angry, hurt, and upset about what happened, you pretty much barricade the door of what is possible.”

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182. “Self-pity in its early stages is as snug as a feather mattress. Only when it hardens does it become uncomfortable. – Maya Angelou.”

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183. “Some of us pray demands. Some of us pray complaints. Some of us pray knowing, and some of us pray not knowing. But prayer is the attitude that you hold in your heart.”

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184. “A change of perspective may be all it takes to transform a painful experience into a powerful growth experience.”

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185. “Honor your own Self. Meditate on your own Self. Worship your own Self. Kneel to your own Self. Understand your own Self. Your God dwells within you as you.”

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186. “We all want to be liked, loved, or needed. That is fine. What is not fine is what we are willing to do to make sure we are liked, or loved or needed. When we make the needs and wants of others a priority in our lives, we devalue ourselves.”

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187. “Acknowledgemen t of what you feel, what you know, what you need is the first step toward healing.”

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188. “Wherever your gift is, that’s where it’s going to be your greatest challenge.”

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189. “Breathing deeply and releasing fear will help you get to where you want to be.”

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190. “If you don’t have a vision you’re going to be stuck in what you know. And the only thing you know is what you’ve already seen. But a vision that grows inside of you, a vision that wakes with you, sleeps with you, moves with you, a vision that you can tap into on your worst, worst, worst day, the vision will pull you forward.”

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191. “If you want to be at peace, you have to be clear about your intetion and – moment by moment – in alignment with your intention.”

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192. “It has set me free from the prison of my mind that caused me to judge others and myself.”

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193. “The good news is that when you have something to do, life will not allow you to move forward until you do it. The bad news is the same.”

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194. “You have to accept that you can’t change the past experiences, opinions of others at that moment in time or outcomes from their choices or yours.”

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195. “I now understand that our life experiences come forth from our souls and that nothing really happens to us; it all happens for our benefit.”

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196. “Comparison is an act of violence against the self. It also leads to judgments and jealousy of those we deem “better off” than we are. If we aren’t the ones doing the comparing, then we’re the ones against whom other women measure themselves. In either case, the comparison, judgments, and jealousy can lead to ugly behavior.”

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197. “If you don’t like your sister or don’t get along with your father, let’s find out if you like yourself. Let’s not sugarcoat anything about it.”

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198. “Live your life in PEACE, not in PIECES...”

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199. “I must have decided wrongly, because I am not at peace.”

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200. “Embrace the truth. Speak the truth. Be the truth. When we welcome the truth, we live our lives like it’s golden.”

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