Top 500 Matt Haig Quotes (2026 Update)

1. “Be brave. Be strong. Breathe, and keep going. You will thank yourself later.”

— Matt Haig

2. “Don’t worry about things you can’t control.”

— Matt Haig

3. “Dark matter is needed to hold galaxies together. Your mind is a Galaxy. More dark than light. But the light makes it worthwhile.”

— Matt Haig

4. “An impossibility is just a possibility you don’t understand yet.”

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5. “Never be cool. Never try to be cool. Never worry what the cool people think. Head for the warm people. Life is warmth. You’ll be cool when you’re dead.”

— Matt Haig

6. “Everyone has a limit – a point at which they can’t take any more – and, almost out of nowhere, I had reached mine.”

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7. “Be humble because you are made of earth. Be noble, for you are made of stars. Serbian proverb.”

— Matt Haig

8. “Just when you feel you have no time to relax, know that this is the moment you most need to make time to relax.”

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9. “And thus the heart will break, yet brokenly live on. – Lord Byron, Childe Harold’s Pilgrimage.”

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10. “The only way to learn is to live.”

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11. “Always be aware of what you are doing, and why you are doing it.”

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12. “You can’t choose where you are born, you can’t decide who won’t leave you, you can’t choose much. A life has unchangeable tides the same as history does. But there is still room inside it for choice. For decisions.”

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13. “The single biggest act of bravery or madness anyone can do is the act of change.”

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14. “It may be a dark cloud passing across the sky, but – if that is the metaphor – you are the sky. You were there before it. And the cloud can’t exist without the sky, but the sky can exist without the cloud.”

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15. “There is no standard normal. Normal is subjective. There are seven billion versions of normal on this planet.”

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16. “Reading isn’t important because it helps to get you a job. It’s important because it gives you room to exist beyond the reality you’re given. It is how humans merge. How minds connect. Dreams. Empathy. Understanding. Escape. Reading is love in action.”

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17. “Knowledge is finite. Wonder is infinite.”

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18. “There is no rejection, there is only redirection.”

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19. “The key is in accepting your thoughts, all of them, even the bad ones. Accept thoughts, but don’t become them.”

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20. “Because a pawn is never just a pawn. A pawn is a queen-in-waiting. All you need to do is find a way to keep moving forward. One square after another. And you can get to the other side and unlock all kinds of power.”

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21. “Advice for a human. 81. You can’t find happiness looking for the meaning of life. Meaning is only the third most important thing. It comes after loving and being. 82. If you think something is ugly, look harder. Ugliness is just a failure of seeing.”

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22. “To lose someone you love is the very worst thing in the world. It creates an invisible hole that you feel you are falling down and will never end. People you love make the world real and solid and when they suddenly go away forever, nothing feels solid any more.”

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23. “Love is scary because it pulls you in with an intense force, a supermassive black hole which looks like nothing from the outside but from the inside challenges every reasonable thing you know. You lose yourself, like I lost myself, in the warmest of annihilations.”

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24. “The bottom of the valley never provides the clearest view.”

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25. “Language gives us the power to voice our experience, to reconnect with the world, and to change our own and other people’s lives.”

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26. “Wherever you are, at any moment, try and find something beautiful. A face, a line out of a poem, the clouds out of a window, some graffiti, a wind farm. Beauty cleans the mind.”

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27. “The longer you live, the more you realize that nothing is fixed. Everyone will become a refugee if they live long enough. Everyone would realize their nationality means little in the long run. Everyone would see their world views challenged and disproved. Everyone would realize the thing that defines a human being is being a human.”

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28. “That’s the odd thing about depression and anxiety. It acts like an intense fear of happiness, even as you yourself consciously want that happiness more than anything.”

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29. “It never rains forever. And know that, however wet you get, you are not the rain. You are not the bad feelings in your head. You are the person experiencing the storm. The storm may knock you off your feet. But you will stand again. Hold on.”

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30. “Remember no one really cares what you look like. They care what they look like. You are the only person in the world to have worried about your face.”

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31. “But people get over grief. They get over even the most serious grief in a matter of years. If not get over then at least live beside. And the way they do this is by investing in other people, through friendship, through family, through teaching, through love.”

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32. “All that humans create serves solely to lessen the terror of existence.”

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33. “You see, doing one thing differently is very often the same as doing everything differently.”

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34. “Mental health is intricately related to the whole body. And the whole body is intricately related to mental health. You can’t draw a line between a body and a mind any more than you can draw a line between oceans.”

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35. “I am you and you are me. We are alone, but not alone. We are trapped by time, but also infinite. Made of flesh, but also stars.”

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36. “In all chaos there is a cosmos,” said Carl Jung, “in all disorder a secret order.”

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37. “Never underestimate the big importance of small things.”

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38. “If, as Schopenhauer said, “we forfeit three-fourths of ourselves in order to be like other people,” then love – at its best – is a way to reclaim those lost parts of ourselves. That freedom we lost somewhere quite early in childhood. Maybe love is just about finding the person you can be your weird self with.”

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39. “You don’t have to understand life. You just have to live it.”

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40. “Nothing is stronger than a small hope that doesn’t give up. Nothing is stronger than a small hope that doesn’t give up. Nothing is stronger than a small hope that doesn’t give up. Nothing is stronger than a small hope that doesn’t give up.”

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41. “THE WORLD IS increasingly designed to depress us. Happiness isn’t very good for the economy.”

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42. “It is easier to learn to be soaked and happy than to learn how to stop the rain.”

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43. “If you think something is ugly, look harder. Ugliness is just a failure of seeing.”

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44. “Monsters are real,” Stephen King said. “And ghosts are real too. They live inside us, and sometimes, they win.”

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45. “Most gossip is envy in disguise.”

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46. “Go confidently in the direction of your dreams,’ Thoreau had said. ‘Live the life you’ve imagined.”

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47. “Life is waiting for you. You might be stuck here for a while, but the world isn’t going anywhere. Hang on in there if you can. Life is always worth it.”

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48. “Maybe love is just about finding the person you can be your weird self with.”

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49. “If you aim to be something you are not, you will always fail. Aim to be you. Aim to look and act and think like you. Aim to be the truest version of you. Embrace that you-ness. Endorse it. Love it. Work hard at it. And don’t give a second thought when people mock it or ridicule it. Most gossip is envy in disguise. Keep your head down. Keep your stamina. Keep swimming...”

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50. “Beware of the gap. The gap between where you are and where you want to be. Simply thinking of the gap widens it. And you end up falling through.”

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