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Roxane Gay Quote: “To read narrowly and shallowly is to read from a place of ignorance, and women writers can’t fix that ignorance no matter what kind of books we write or how those books are marketed.”

201. “To read narrowly and shallowly is to read from a place of ignorance, and women writers can’t fix that ignorance no matter what kind of books we write or how those books are marketed.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I am confident in my opinions and believe I have a right to share my point of view without apology. This confidence tends to upset people who disagree with me. Rarely are my actual ideas engaged. Instead, my weight is discussed. “You are fat,” they say.”

202. “I am confident in my opinions and believe I have a right to share my point of view without apology. This confidence tends to upset people who disagree with me. Rarely are my actual ideas engaged. Instead, my weight is discussed. “You are fat,” they say.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I am an acquired taste.”

203. “I am an acquired taste.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “At night, Marcy worried about her ass and thighs. Her husband always said, “Baby, you are perfect,” and she flushed angrily. His assurances were so reflexive as to be insulting.”

204. “At night, Marcy worried about her ass and thighs. Her husband always said, “Baby, you are perfect,” and she flushed angrily. His assurances were so reflexive as to be insulting.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I deny myself certain trappings of femininity as if i do not have the right to such expression when my body does not follow society’s dictates for what a woman’s body should look like.”

205. “I deny myself certain trappings of femininity as if i do not have the right to such expression when my body does not follow society’s dictates for what a woman’s body should look like.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I see my tweets as a current joining a bunch of other currents in the world’s craziest ocean.”

206. “I see my tweets as a current joining a bunch of other currents in the world’s craziest ocean.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I deny myself gentler kinds of affection – to touch or be kindly touched – as if that is a pleasure a body like mine does not deserve.”

207. “I deny myself gentler kinds of affection – to touch or be kindly touched – as if that is a pleasure a body like mine does not deserve.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “At some point, you have to surrender to the kinds of privilege you hold.”

208. “At some point, you have to surrender to the kinds of privilege you hold.”

209. “I remember so little from high school, but in the past few years, as my profile as a writer has gotten more visible, I’ve started to hear from the kids I went to high school with and, oddly enough, they all remember me distinctly. They reach out via e-mail, or Facebook, or at events, and ask me, eagerly, if I remember them too. They share anecdotes that make me seem like I was interesting and not as unbearable as I remember myself. I.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “One of the many things I have always loved about writing, not to be confused with publishing, is that all you need is your imagination. It doesn’t matter who you are, you can write. Your looks, especially, don’t matter.”

210. “One of the many things I have always loved about writing, not to be confused with publishing, is that all you need is your imagination. It doesn’t matter who you are, you can write. Your looks, especially, don’t matter.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I don’t want them, or anyone, to think I am nothing more than the worst thing that has ever happened to me.”

211. “I don’t want them, or anyone, to think I am nothing more than the worst thing that has ever happened to me.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “People see bodies like mine and make their assumptions. They think they know the why of my body. They do not.”

212. “People see bodies like mine and make their assumptions. They think they know the why of my body. They do not.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “Milly is not, in fact, ugly, but she might as well be. She has a pretty face, which is the same thing as ugly when a woman is fat. In the complex calculus between men and women, Milly understands that fat is always ugly and that ugly and skinny makes a woman eminently more desirable than fat and any combination such as beautiful, charming, intelligent, or kind. Milly is all those things. She knows it doesn’t matter.”

213. “Milly is not, in fact, ugly, but she might as well be. She has a pretty face, which is the same thing as ugly when a woman is fat. In the complex calculus between men and women, Milly understands that fat is always ugly and that ugly and skinny makes a woman eminently more desirable than fat and any combination such as beautiful, charming, intelligent, or kind. Milly is all those things. She knows it doesn’t matter.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “We need to get to a place where we discuss privilege by way of observation and acknowledgment rather than accusation.”

214. “We need to get to a place where we discuss privilege by way of observation and acknowledgment rather than accusation.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “Maybe I’m a bad feminist, but I am deeply committed to the issues important to the feminist movement. I have strong opinions about misogyny, institutional sexism that consistently places women at a disadvantage, the inequity in pay, the cult of beauty and thinness, the repeated attacks on reproductive freedom, violence against women, and on and on. I am as committed to fighting fiercely for equality as I am committed to disrupting the notion that there is an essential feminism.”

215. “Maybe I’m a bad feminist, but I am deeply committed to the issues important to the feminist movement. I have strong opinions about misogyny, institutional sexism that consistently places women at a disadvantage, the inequity in pay, the cult of beauty and thinness, the repeated attacks on reproductive freedom, violence against women, and on and on. I am as committed to fighting fiercely for equality as I am committed to disrupting the notion that there is an essential feminism.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “Nemeses aren’t born. They are made.”

216. “Nemeses aren’t born. They are made.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “If you feel like it’s hard to be friends with women, consider that maybe women aren’t the problem. Maybe it’s just you.”

217. “If you feel like it’s hard to be friends with women, consider that maybe women aren’t the problem. Maybe it’s just you.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “Everything I know about my family’s history, I know in fragments. We are the keepers of secrets. We are secrets ourselves. We try to protect each other from the geography of so much sorrow. I don’t know that we succeed.”

218. “Everything I know about my family’s history, I know in fragments. We are the keepers of secrets. We are secrets ourselves. We try to protect each other from the geography of so much sorrow. I don’t know that we succeed.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “My mother has often told me there are some things you cannot tell a man who loves you, things he cannot handle knowing.”

219. “My mother has often told me there are some things you cannot tell a man who loves you, things he cannot handle knowing.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “The constant drumbeat of stories of sexual assault – from R. Kelly to our own goddamn president – keep me in a constant state of postrape PTSD. Some days, I feel like I have to hold my breath just to read the news so I can get through it and on with my workday.”

220. “The constant drumbeat of stories of sexual assault – from R. Kelly to our own goddamn president – keep me in a constant state of postrape PTSD. Some days, I feel like I have to hold my breath just to read the news so I can get through it and on with my workday.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I get my first paycheck. We are paid once a month, which requires the kind of budgeting I am incapable of. Life is unpleasant after the twenty-third or so. I’ve been a graduate student for so long it’s hard to fathom that one check can have four numbers and change. Then I see how much The Man takes. Damn The Man.”

221. “I get my first paycheck. We are paid once a month, which requires the kind of budgeting I am incapable of. Life is unpleasant after the twenty-third or so. I’ve been a graduate student for so long it’s hard to fathom that one check can have four numbers and change. Then I see how much The Man takes. Damn The Man.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “She was trying to disappear and she couldn’t. It is unbearable to want something so little and need it so much.”

222. “She was trying to disappear and she couldn’t. It is unbearable to want something so little and need it so much.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “You are your body, nothing more, and your body should damn well become less.”

223. “You are your body, nothing more, and your body should damn well become less.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “My tweeting is cool and calm unless I am riled up about something and then I just surrender to the fury of my fingers.”

224. “My tweeting is cool and calm unless I am riled up about something and then I just surrender to the fury of my fingers.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I was never going to be good enough, but I tried so hard. I tried to make myself better. I tried to make myself acceptable to someone who would never find me acceptable but kept me around for reasons I cannot begin to make sense of. I stayed because they confirmed every terrible thing I already knew about myself. I stayed because I thought no one else would possibly tolerate someone as worthless as me. I stayed through infidelity and disrespect. I stayed until they no longer wanted me around.”

225. “I was never going to be good enough, but I tried so hard. I tried to make myself better. I tried to make myself acceptable to someone who would never find me acceptable but kept me around for reasons I cannot begin to make sense of. I stayed because they confirmed every terrible thing I already knew about myself. I stayed because I thought no one else would possibly tolerate someone as worthless as me. I stayed through infidelity and disrespect. I stayed until they no longer wanted me around.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I buried the girl I had been because she ran into all kinds of trouble. I tried to erase every memory of her, but she is still there, somewhere. She is still small and scared and ashamed, an.”

226. “I buried the girl I had been because she ran into all kinds of trouble. I tried to erase every memory of her, but she is still there, somewhere. She is still small and scared and ashamed, an.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “We must stop pointing to the exceptions – these bright shining stars who transcend circumstance. We must look to how we can best support the least among us, not spend all our time blindly revering and trying to mimic the greatest without demanding systemic change.”

227. “We must stop pointing to the exceptions – these bright shining stars who transcend circumstance. We must look to how we can best support the least among us, not spend all our time blindly revering and trying to mimic the greatest without demanding systemic change.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I’ve been that girl, too big for the clothes in the store, just trying to find something, anything, that fits, while also dealing with the commentary of someone else who means well but can’t help but make pointed, insensitive comments. To be that girl in a clothing store is to be the loneliest girl in the world. I.”

228. “I’ve been that girl, too big for the clothes in the store, just trying to find something, anything, that fits, while also dealing with the commentary of someone else who means well but can’t help but make pointed, insensitive comments. To be that girl in a clothing store is to be the loneliest girl in the world. I.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “So often feminism is built up as this thing where you have to be perfect. You have to be consistent and you can’t ever deviate. That’s just not realistic.”

229. “So often feminism is built up as this thing where you have to be perfect. You have to be consistent and you can’t ever deviate. That’s just not realistic.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “Movies, more often than not, tell the stories of men as if men’s stories are the only stories that matter. When women are involved, they are sidekicks, the romantic interests, the afterthoughts. Rarely do women get to be the center of attention. Rarely do our stories get to matter.”

230. “Movies, more often than not, tell the stories of men as if men’s stories are the only stories that matter. When women are involved, they are sidekicks, the romantic interests, the afterthoughts. Rarely do women get to be the center of attention. Rarely do our stories get to matter.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “It’s not that I don’t want to love unharmed people; I just don’t understand them.”

231. “It’s not that I don’t want to love unharmed people; I just don’t understand them.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “We are free to speak as we choose without fear of prosecution or persecution, but we are not free to speak as we choose without consequence.”

232. “We are free to speak as we choose without fear of prosecution or persecution, but we are not free to speak as we choose without consequence.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “In truth, feminism is flawed because it is a movement powered by people and people are inherently flawed.”

233. “In truth, feminism is flawed because it is a movement powered by people and people are inherently flawed.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I am quite content to be in my thirties, and nothing affirms that more than being around people in their late teens and early twenties.”

234. “I am quite content to be in my thirties, and nothing affirms that more than being around people in their late teens and early twenties.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I no longer want to believe these problems are too complex for us to make sense of them.”

235. “I no longer want to believe these problems are too complex for us to make sense of them.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I hate these shows, but clearly I watch them. I watch them even though sometimes they enrage me and sometimes they break my heart and all too often they reveal painfully familiar experiences of loneliness, depression, and genuine suffering born of living in a world that cannot accommodate overweight bodies. I watch these shows because even though I know how damaging and unrealistic they are, some part of me still yearns for the salvation they promise.”

236. “I hate these shows, but clearly I watch them. I watch them even though sometimes they enrage me and sometimes they break my heart and all too often they reveal painfully familiar experiences of loneliness, depression, and genuine suffering born of living in a world that cannot accommodate overweight bodies. I watch these shows because even though I know how damaging and unrealistic they are, some part of me still yearns for the salvation they promise.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “These reactions hurt, for so many reasons. They illustrate how little people think of fat people, how they assume we are neither smart nor capable if we have such unruly bodies.”

237. “These reactions hurt, for so many reasons. They illustrate how little people think of fat people, how they assume we are neither smart nor capable if we have such unruly bodies.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “We have to be more interested in making things better than just being right, or interesting, or funny.”

238. “We have to be more interested in making things better than just being right, or interesting, or funny.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I was a shy girl, but when I read, I was adventurous. Books made me bolder.”

239. “I was a shy girl, but when I read, I was adventurous. Books made me bolder.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “For a moment, Milly couldn’t breathe as her anger flew out of her chest and into her mouth. She ran her tongue over it, hard and bitter, then swallowed it again.”

240. “For a moment, Milly couldn’t breathe as her anger flew out of her chest and into her mouth. She ran her tongue over it, hard and bitter, then swallowed it again.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I’m not sure how we can get better at having these conversations, but I do know we need to overcome our deeply entrenched positions and resistance to nuance. We have to be more interested in making things better than just being right, or interesting, or funny.”

241. “I’m not sure how we can get better at having these conversations, but I do know we need to overcome our deeply entrenched positions and resistance to nuance. We have to be more interested in making things better than just being right, or interesting, or funny.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “As individuals, we may not be able to do much, but when we’re silent when someone uses the word “gay” as an insult, we are falling short. When we don’t vote to support equal marriage rights for all, we are falling short. When we support musicians like Tyler, the Creator, we are falling short. We are failing our communities. We are failing civil rights. There are injustices great and small, and even if we can only fight the small ones, at least we are fighting.”

242. “As individuals, we may not be able to do much, but when we’re silent when someone uses the word “gay” as an insult, we are falling short. When we don’t vote to support equal marriage rights for all, we are falling short. When we support musicians like Tyler, the Creator, we are falling short. We are failing our communities. We are failing civil rights. There are injustices great and small, and even if we can only fight the small ones, at least we are fighting.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I love writing fiction because I can totally lose myself and I get to make up the rules of the world that I’m writing.”

243. “I love writing fiction because I can totally lose myself and I get to make up the rules of the world that I’m writing.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I will keep writing about these intersections as a writer and a teacher, as a black woman, as a bad feminist, until I no longer feel like what I want is impossible. I no longer want to believe that these problems are too complex for us to make sense of them.”

244. “I will keep writing about these intersections as a writer and a teacher, as a black woman, as a bad feminist, until I no longer feel like what I want is impossible. I no longer want to believe that these problems are too complex for us to make sense of them.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I am self-conscious beyond measure. I am intensely and constantly preoccupied with my body in the world because I know what people think and what they see when they look at me. I know that I am breaking the unspoken rules of what a woman should look like. I.”

245. “I am self-conscious beyond measure. I am intensely and constantly preoccupied with my body in the world because I know what people think and what they see when they look at me. I know that I am breaking the unspoken rules of what a woman should look like. I.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “When we’re talking about race or religion or politics, it is often said we need to speak carefully. These are difficult topics where we need to be vigilant not only in what we say but also in how we express ourselves. That same care must extend to how we write about violence and sexual violence in particular.”

246. “When we’re talking about race or religion or politics, it is often said we need to speak carefully. These are difficult topics where we need to be vigilant not only in what we say but also in how we express ourselves. That same care must extend to how we write about violence and sexual violence in particular.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I am determined to be more than my body – what my body has endured, what my body has become. Determination, though, has not gotten me very far.”

247. “I am determined to be more than my body – what my body has endured, what my body has become. Determination, though, has not gotten me very far.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I buried the girl I had been because she ran into all kinds of trouble. I tried to erase every memory of her, but she is still there, somewhere. She is still small and scared and ashamed, and perhaps I am writing my way back to her, trying to tell her everything she needs to hear.”

248. “I buried the girl I had been because she ran into all kinds of trouble. I tried to erase every memory of her, but she is still there, somewhere. She is still small and scared and ashamed, and perhaps I am writing my way back to her, trying to tell her everything she needs to hear.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “The idea of a secret that will be revealed always results in one of two scenarios: death and destruction, or self-discovery and recovery beyond our wildest dreams of unification. And in the greatest of sagas, both at the same time.”

249. “The idea of a secret that will be revealed always results in one of two scenarios: death and destruction, or self-discovery and recovery beyond our wildest dreams of unification. And in the greatest of sagas, both at the same time.”

Roxane Gay Quote: “I often say that reading and writing saved my life. I mean that quite literally.”

250. “I often say that reading and writing saved my life. I mean that quite literally.”

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