Top 500 Shannon L. Alder Quotes (2025 Update)
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51. “Silence is for fools. Communication is for leaders. Justice is for those brave enough to not stand another moment dealing with people that feel the solution to any problem is through cold indifference because of their lack of courage and insecurities.”

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52. “Sensitive people care when the world doesn’t because we understand waiting to be rescued and no one shows up. We have rescued ourselves, so many times that we have become self taught in the art of compassion for those forgotten.”

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53. “What you feed your soul is what you harvest with your actions.”

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54. “True love is the tide that pulls out to sea, but always returns to kiss the shore at sunrise.”

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55. “Don’t ignore pain; appreciate its message: You need to change now!”

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56. “Never give up on someone with a mental illness. When “I” is replaced by “We”, illness becomes wellness.”

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57. “The best stories are the ones with the unexpected plot twists that no one would have guessed, even the writer.”

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58. “The greatest temptation you will ever have in your life is to give up on what you truly want because it seemed to difficult to have. If you put your loyalty into anything, put it into believing in yourself.”

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59. “Self worth is not measured by what you have, no matter how full your life is. Rather, it comes from what you are, how authentically you’re really living your life, and how much you are willing to give to something other than your own insecurities.”

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60. “Kindness is love in action, not feeling emotions or thoughts of empathy only. Kindness is doing!”

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61. “Behind every angry soul is a wounded child that just wanted you to love them for who they are.”

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62. “The real warriors in this world are the ones that see the details of another’s soul. They see the transparency behind walls people put up. They stand on the battlefield of life and expose their heart’s transparency, so other’s can finish the day with hope. They are the sensitive souls that understand that before they could be a light they first had to feel the burn.”

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63. “Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.”

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64. “Angels come in many forms, but they always bring the same message – wisdom.”

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65. “Don’t ever let anyone put out your light because they are blinded by it.”

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66. “You had me at hello, goodbye and everything in between.”

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67. “Confidence is knowing who you are and not changing it a bit because of someone’s version of reality is not your reality.”

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68. “You’re only a victim to the degree of what your perception allows.”

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69. “We live with the scars we choose.”

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70. “Letting go of people doesn’t mean you never loved them. Sometimes, it is the greatest act of love because it teaches them to be accountable for how they treat people who care. Maybe, not now, but years from now, they will look back and realize that kindness is more than yelling casual suggestions to a person that is drowning in their sea of apathy.”

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71. “Don’t waste your time trying to provide people with proof of deceit, in order to keep their love, win their love or salvage their respect for you. The truth is this: If they care they will go out of their way to learn the truth. If they don’t then they really don’t value you as a human being. The moment you have to sell people on who you are is the moment you let yourself believe that every good thing you have ever done or accomplished was invisible to the world. And, it is not!”

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72. “Marriage is a journey of disasters, only to fall in love all over again, with the person that rescues you each time.”

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73. “To love someone with all of your heart requires reaching them where they are with the only words they can understand.”

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74. “She builds people up because she knows what it is like to be torn down.”

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75. “You cannot become a peacemaker without communication. Silence is a passive aggressive grenade thrown by insecure people that want war, but they don’t want the accountability of starting it.”

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76. “If someone wants to be in your life they will find you. If they don’t they will find an excuse.”

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77. “It is not until you change your identity to match your life blueprint that you will understand why everything in the past never worked.”

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78. “Love may be blind but jealousy has 20-20 vision.”

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79. “Realize that narcissists have an addiction disorder. They are strongly addicted to feeling significant. Like any addict they will do whatever it takes to get this feeling often. That is why they are manipulative and future fakers. They promise change, but can’t deliver if it interferes with their addiction. That is why they secure back up supply.”

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80. “Anyone can have a friend, but the one that would walk in a storm to find you is all you will ever need.”

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81. “Sensitive people either love deeply or they regret deeply. There really is no middle ground because they live in passionate extremes.”

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82. “Never chase a person that doesn’t know your worth because the moment you catch him you will always feel you were never good enough.”

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83. “Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate hope.”

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84. “The need for control always comes from someone that has lost it.”

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85. “The journey of the mind always has longer to travel than the heart because dreams carry weight, while love makes you float.”

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86. “You can be broken into a dozen shattered pieces and still heal the world because service has its own medicine – hope.”

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87. “A person that doesn’t know their worth will never know yours. Therefore, the longer you hang onto hope that they will finally see your worth is the moment you start to depreciate in value.”

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88. “Money isn’t the solution to your problems. It only lets you carry your unhappiness around in style.”

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89. “It might look like your enemies are winning, but be ready God is about to flip the script.”

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90. “At any point God can change his plans for your life when he decides your life purpose needs to be protected.”

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91. “When you love yourself you will never need closure from any man. That doesn’t mean you didn’t love him, it simply means you love yourself enough to realize God has a better plan for you that doesn’t involve one more conversation that will remind you of that person’s lack of respect for you.”

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92. “True love is not a question. It is an answer that you never have to spend a lifetime figuring out.”

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93. “You will never change, unless you are honest with yourself or you are forced to be authentic by someone that was honest with him or herself.”

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94. “The destination is not the journey. The destination is the person you choose to enjoy the journey with.”

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95. “When you take the high road you will see things that some people can’t.”

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96. “You have two choices in life: Live the life you want or live the life of acceptance.”

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97. “When you can identify the insecurities inside the person that is hurting you then you can begin to heal. It isn’t about you. It is about their past.”

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98. “You will never know love’s depth, until it is gone.”

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99. “God whispered, “You endured a lot. For that I am truly sorry, but grateful. I needed you to struggle to help so many. Through that process you would grow into who you have now become. Didn’t you know that I gave all my struggles to my favorite children? One only needs to look at the struggles given to your older brother Jesus to know how important you have been to me.”

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100. “The best plot twists are the ones you didn’t expect.”

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