Top 500 Shannon L. Alder Quotes (2025 Update)
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401. “Thoughts might not be solid and always obtainable, but they become your reality when emotions are attached to them. Over time, they become your wants and form an attachment to your behavior.”

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402. “Arrange your life in such a way that you don’t make choices based on fear of God, instead of love of God.”

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403. “I don’t fear the future. I fear letting it pass by me, without ever trying to make it mine.”

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404. “You have to recognize your inability to love before you can love the way God loves. His version of love is unfamiliar to the natural world; It is sacrificial and selfless and the most beautiful love you could experience.”

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405. “I was never weighed down by beauty in my lifetime. However, I was beaten down by the sad fears of my gender- women who didn’t allow you to feel pretty or rejoice in who you are, unless it fell beneath how they thought about themselves.”

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406. “Often what people don’t say or leave out, tells the real story.”

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407. “The truth is this: People that give you focus, energy and anger do care. If you were nothing then you wouldn’t be able to affect them. Behind every over reaction was first the thought that your opinion mattered and your respect was once of value or you wouldn’t get the response you got.”

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408. “It is through strength of character, not luck, do we form the predictable path of our future.”

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409. “Some women don’t care what you can do for them. They care about what you could make of them in the inside.”

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410. “You will never understand the real definition of insanity until the day you are told it is unreasonable for you to feel hurt by the very people that hurt you.”

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411. “All we have is “One Life”, so go for IT!”

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412. “Live is not about constantly fighting to keep someone in your life. It is about constantly fighting for a better life together.”

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413. “When did trust ever become more important than love? Then God whispered, “You never did trust me. You gave up so many times, but I knew you still loved me.” In the wind his words echoed the answer – love was always more important.”

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414. “Worry does not keep it from raining tomorrow, but it does keep it from being sunny today.”

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415. “The only way to find peace is to face the unknown and trust that God has heard your tears.”

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416. “Maybe, the lesson we can all learn from the inner sadness of a Narcissist is to see through our own fabrications, our own illusions so that we can be set free to be real once more.”

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417. “Sometimes, when we pray for miracles what we are really praying for is God to do the work that we are too afraid to take action about. Often, the miracle resides in us and we need to simply “be all in”, rather than standing on the fence waiting.”

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418. “Every romantic knows that love was never a noun; it is a verb.”

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419. “Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another, “I want to know why!”

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420. “You really won’t know where your home is until you meet your own kind and realize you’re both playing the same game.”

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421. “With humor and humility you can withstand anything.”

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422. “Grief is just love with no place to go.”

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423. “The wise do not buy into other people’s perceptions of who they are and what they are capable of. Instead, they bypass a person’s public persona and see who they are in their highest expression. When you see actions taken with integrity, instead of words only, you will then know a soul’s worth.”

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424. “If you want to keep your eye on Christ then you have to learn to SEE.”

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425. “When people want to win they will go to desperate extremes. However, anyone that has already won in life has come to the conclusion that there is no game. There is nothing but learning in this life and it is the only thing we take with us to the grave – knowledge. If you only understood that concept then your heart wouldn’t break so bad. Jealousy or revenge wouldn’t be your ambition. Stepping on others to raise yourself up wouldn’t be a goal. Competition would be left on the playing field, and your freedom from what other people think about you would light the pathway out of hell.”

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426. “When you heart knows it doesn’t belong there, it will continue to self sabotage your future, until you make the choice you wanted, but found a million excuses not to pursue.”

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427. “God doesn’t ordain stupidity.”

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428. “Impossible has always been a dare.”

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429. “Happy people can look back and say they chose their life, not settled for it.”

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430. “The purest love always reveals itself during acceptance.”

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431. “Empowered Women 101: A confident and faithful woman that loves herself and knows what she is capable of creating will attract the right man that will want to be part of that plan. God won’t bring her a man that she has to mold into what she wants him to be. A relationship is about two people helping one another grow, not just one.”

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432. “What people can get you or do for you will never replace a person that will influence you to be a better person.”

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433. “What separates people who made their dreams come true is not setting goals to achieve a life the way they expect it to be, but how they expect to be, in order to achieve it.”

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434. “Sometimes we can spend too much time trying to fix our life that we forget to live.”

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435. “When you are offered a miracle take it. Otherwise, show God your tail so he can move on and give it to someone who doesn’t want to be in hell any more.”

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436. “Staying for your children is noble. However, staying with someone that teaches your children that “selective” evilness is okay is mental illness.”

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437. “The meaning you apply to what has happened to you is your decision. There will be critics that have their version, but God didn’t call them to be your audience, someone else did.”

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438. “Judgement is always based on experience and sometimes you will battle a person’s history first, before commonsense will ever win the war.”

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439. “You will know what and who really matters to you the moment you feel you have lost them.”

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440. “God cannot remove the burdens of your heart, but he will prompt you where to go, what to say and what to do, in order to free yourself from your chains.”

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441. “Every insecure soul has a government of their own and a paid judge in their court room.”

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442. “You will never let go of the one thing that God keeps prompting you to fix.”

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443. “Principles are meant to serve people, not people serving to uphold the principle, while harming the people.”

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444. “Sometimes God doesn’t deny, he delays.”

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445. “Rationalizing is another road that leads to hell.”

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446. “Learn the difference between a person that would have never given up on you and a person you pushed away.”

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447. “Hold onto the wings of angels that pass your way. They fly higher than any army that has none.”

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448. “Sometimes taking a leap faith requires an imaginative mind that can create the ending you are unable to see.”

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449. “Sometimes, we are unable to break free because we are held captive by divine assignment because in our problem God has given us a unique purpose.”

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450. “Quitters always believe the lies they tell themselves because delusion is easier to live with than the reality that they settled for an easier path.”

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