Top 500 Shannon L. Alder Quotes (2024 Update)
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251. “Some women are built by the fire. Yet, there are some that are the FIRE!”

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252. “Despite our disapproval with what God allows us to endure, he still remains the same God that is not interested in our convenience, as much as our character.”

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253. “You won’t find peace with another, until you become one person – not two.”

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254. “Empowering Women 101: Every woman thinks they are the special person that was forordained to change a man. Do you really think you are better than all the women that tried? Don’t marry someone with the arrogant thought your spirituality will magically transform people. Instead, live in such a way that you don’t have to change or convince anyone of your worthiness.”

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255. “Don’t do the right thing for the wrong reasons. It is the “why” that keeps us committed to our choices and defines our character.”

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256. “Every storm is a classroom and every person a lesson or teacher.”

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257. “While you were busy trying to prove God stands behind you, God was before me lighting the trail, so he could lead us both.”

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258. “Doing evil to another person doesn’t prove your love and loyalty to another person; it proves your significant other wants you to walk away from the light because they are lonely living in the dark.”

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259. “Always remember that you have been called worse things by better people.”

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260. “I don’t need to go to heaven or hell. I have been both places and always wanted more. I will settle for somewhere in between, so eternity never becomes dull and every miracle is something I never take for granted.”

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261. “When you meet a dark angel don’t you ever for one minute believe they are bad because they have faced the worst demons and lived to guide you through yours. It really isn’t an easy job they have been asked to do, but then neither was standing on the front line during the war in heaven.”

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262. “There is no end to the things you don’t understand. The mind will search for a lie to give it an answer you can understand, but one song at the right time will challenge what you accept.”

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263. “The more you rationalize, the more you move farther away from your authentic self.”

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264. “The people that understand you the most are not always the people you call family. Often, it is the person that has traveled a parallel road because they have seen the same scenery in life and can comment on the view.”

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265. “I am not perfect, but if I looked perfect to everyone I must have been rocking imperfect perfectly to a few imperfect souls that seek imperfection vs. perfection, in an imperfect world where God asks us to seek perfection for our imperfect souls.”

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266. “Even the smallest amount of light can push back the shadows.”

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267. “Your heart will always go where your mind wanders.”

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268. “When you can’t escape your mind then God is telling your heart to catch up. Fight for the balance you need.”

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269. “You won’t find angels in hell, only demons that know how to play with yours.”

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270. “We are all daughters of God in various stages of construction.”

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271. “You don’t have to apologize for loving someone or wanting a life that no longer fits your blueprint. The beginning phase of reclaiming your life always starts with apologizing to yourself, then apologizing to others for wasting their time because of your fear based decisions. The truth is when we eliminate fear we often find the real path we were meant to be on.”

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272. “Are we not all books waiting for someone to pick us up and read the pages that people missed?”

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273. “You can rationalize anything, but that is not total honesty, only your version of it based on your upbringing and experiences outside of everyone else’s reality.”

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274. “When you least expect it is when the person you always dreamt of will finally show up.”

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275. “Denial is the way people handle what they cannot handle.”

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276. “When you really want something, you will give up a million times, but your heart keeps taking you back to the starting line.”

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277. “Never underestimate the woman that holds God’s pen.”

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278. “Your ability to see will never broaden when you only see yourself.”

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279. “Every talent you have is not wasted. It is there because of a reason and God will open that door when the right time comes along to use it.”

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280. “It is not the monsters we should be afraid of; it is the people that don’t recognize the same monsters inside of themself.”

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281. “The day your soul has died is the day you don’t care about anyone’s pain, unless it builds you up or makes you richer.”

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282. “Learn to be a responder, not a reactor.”

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283. “Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is knowing your value, instead of expecting a man’s love to provide you with value.”

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284. “You can’t turn love off like a light switch. If you could it wouldn’t be love. It is something that you keep on, until the bulb burns out or someone replaces it.”

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285. “If soulmates did exist I am pretty sure they would never divorce you, dump you, kick you out, separate from you or make you an option. They would never give up because you meant that much to them.”

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286. “Ambition is putting a ladder against the sky.”

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287. “Fear and focus are the only two things standing between you and staying positive.”

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288. “You can’t live in your mind and expect those dreams to become real, without the work. Reality requires actions that might feel scary, but that is what is required if you want to find true love. Don’t expect it to come and rescue you. You have to rescue yourself.”

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289. “Courage can’t exist without action. Anything else is a lion without his roar.”

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290. “Guilt is a lazy feeling that takes no action; the wings of integrity are the only thing that sets it free.”

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291. “Never settle on a life you don’t want when God is trying to give you a better life.”

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292. “Take the high road. People will rise up to join you or fall out of sight.”

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293. “Never believe someone cares for you because of other people’s reactions. Sometimes you have to drown out the noise from the crowd, in order to figure out if there is a song playing between the two of you or simply annoying static that you thought was a tune.”

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294. “Truth and facts are woven together. However, sometimes facts can blind you from seeing what is actually going on in someone’s life.”

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295. “You might lose battles in your life time. However, every person that stands bravely on the side of justice, for people that have no voice, wins the true battle – Gods.”

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296. “The problem will never be diversity, the challenging of tradition or the one person that questions the way life should be. The person that shows the world that this is wrong, there is a perspective you didn’t consider, this is worth fighting for and being different is a blessing, will always be the solution for change.”

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297. “People who made their dreams come true didn’t simply go after it. They changed the person they were, in order to fit the type of person that would live that type of dream.”

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298. “Never give up and never give in. The truth always finds a way to be told.”

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299. “Empowering Women 101: Know the difference between real love and a person that is with you because it is easy and convenient. A real woman doesn’t live in the fantasy that he just all of a sudden knew you were the one and no one else believes that either. Be willing to settle and accept the situation or work on it. However, don’t sit in denial and pretend going through hell in a relationship was required before he saw your worth. He should have known from the beginning.”

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300. “If you want to heal your heart surround yourself with people that won’t tell you hating other people is how you get over being hurt. Surround yourself with people that will tell you to be more like Christ and reach out to those you don’t understand or are offended by. Bitter insecure and anxious people will tell you everything you need to hear to help you move on, but very little of it will be the true teachings of Christ.”

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