Top 500 Shannon L. Alder Quotes (2026 Update)
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301. “The more you rationalize, the more you move farther away from your authentic self.”

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302. “Being a good person doesn’t mean you fit the life of every person you meet.”

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303. “Anyone can possess, anyone can profess, but it is an altogether different thing to confess.”

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304. “Doing evil to another person doesn’t prove your love and loyalty to another person; it proves your significant other wants you to walk away from the light because they are lonely living in the dark.”

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305. “You might lose battles in your life time. However, every person that stands bravely on the side of justice, for people that have no voice, wins the true battle – Gods.”

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306. “It is so simple, yet so hard for some people to do. If you want someone out of your life then you and only “you” must tell him or her to leave. This can only be done by you. Otherwise, your silence shouts, “I am undecided.” When other people get involved it sends mixed signals. If only more people would be so bold, hearts would not linger so long.”

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307. “You won’t find angels in hell, only demons that know how to play with yours.”

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308. “Your heart will always go where your mind wanders.”

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309. “It is not the monsters we should be afraid of; it is the people that don’t recognize the same monsters inside of themself.”

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310. “Take the high road. People will rise up to join you or fall out of sight.”

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311. “When you can’t escape your mind then God is telling your heart to catch up. Fight for the balance you need.”

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312. “Evolving is not arrogance. It is confidence that won’t be pulled backwards, by those that feel left behind.”

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313. “Be patient and believe in your future. God is already there and is preparing a way.”

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314. “Don’t talk yourself into falling in love with someone. Either, you are in love or you are not. True love is not a choice. It is something you know in your heart when all guilt, doubt and fear are removed.”

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315. “You can rationalize anything, but that is not total honesty, only your version of it based on your upbringing and experiences outside of everyone else’s reality.”

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316. “We are all daughters of God in various stages of construction.”

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317. “I don’t need to go to heaven or hell. I have been both places and always wanted more. I will settle for somewhere in between, so eternity never becomes dull and every miracle is something I never take for granted.”

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318. “My love has no boundaries and is bound by no rules, except one: Love all of me and I will love all of you.”

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319. “Sometimes, you can be more than enough for someone, but they choose not to be in your life. Always remember that Satan works hard to keep people miserable by feeding their fears, so they stay in their comfort zone. The truth is some people value what is predictable, more than chemistry.”

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320. “You can’t live in your mind and expect those dreams to become real, without the work. Reality requires actions that might feel scary, but that is what is required if you want to find true love. Don’t expect it to come and rescue you. You have to rescue yourself.”

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321. “Grief is just love with no place to go.”

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322. “I am not perfect, but if I looked perfect to everyone I must have been rocking imperfect perfectly to a few imperfect souls that seek imperfection vs. perfection, in an imperfect world where God asks us to seek perfection for our imperfect souls.”

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323. “What lies between where you are and where you want to be sometimes requires traveling through the Twilight Zone.”

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324. “Empowering Women 101: Know the difference between real love and a person that is with you because it is easy and convenient. A real woman doesn’t live in the fantasy that he just all of a sudden knew you were the one and no one else believes that either. Be willing to settle and accept the situation or work on it. However, don’t sit in denial and pretend going through hell in a relationship was required before he saw your worth. He should have known from the beginning.”

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325. “The problem will never be diversity, the challenging of tradition or the one person that questions the way life should be. The person that shows the world that this is wrong, there is a perspective you didn’t consider, this is worth fighting for and being different is a blessing, will always be the solution for change.”

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326. “Are we not all books waiting for someone to pick us up and read the pages that people missed?”

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327. “Empowered Women 101: A man doesn’t have to put down other women to prove his love for you. In fact, why would you teach him to be less than Christlike, in order to show his devotion? Real women don’t need the people in their life to lower others, in order to raise them up.”

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328. “If you chase anything in life chase the things that get you excited about living. Chase the things that give you hope, happiness and a glimpse of a better life. Chase the things that make you want to be a better person. Chase the things that inspire you to think, create and live joyfully. Chase the things that reinforce in your soul that you can make a difference. Chase the things that make you want to transform your heart from selfish to selfless. When you chase that kind of storm you are chasing rainbows.”

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329. “Every talent you have is not wasted. It is there because of a reason and God will open that door when the right time comes along to use it.”

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330. “Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another: Why can’t you see who I truly am?”

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331. “Gratitude can’t grow love higher than regret.”

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332. “Always remember that you have been called worse things by better people.”

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333. “When you live with dignity no man will ever take it. Live without it and every boy will steal it.”

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334. “It has always been simple, but making it hard was always your way of avoiding pain. If you want to change your life, you have to change what you are doing. It wasn’t his fault, her fault, their fault or the circumstances. It was your inability to choose. So, life chose for you. Somewhere in that crazy mind of yours time stopped. You thought someone would rescue you, but they didn’t. You have to rescue yourself. This is not a fire you can put out; you have to walk through it, in order to reach life. Getting burned is apart of growth, didn’t you know?”

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335. “Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another, “I want to know why!”

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336. “If you want to heal your heart surround yourself with people that won’t tell you hating other people is how you get over being hurt. Surround yourself with people that will tell you to be more like Christ and reach out to those you don’t understand or are offended by. Bitter insecure and anxious people will tell you everything you need to hear to help you move on, but very little of it will be the true teachings of Christ.”

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337. “Sometimes we can spend too much time trying to fix our life that we forget to live.”

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338. “Reality was once a dream that took flight.”

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339. “Courage can’t exist without action. Anything else is a lion without his roar.”

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340. “True self confidence happens when you stop blaming others for not seeing what you love about yourself. Not everyone has the same list of needs.”

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341. “Have you ever thought that the battle you are in was never a lesson, but a test? Will you choose your comfort, ego and feelings or will you choose to prove your love of Christ by humbling your heart and seeing that the solution was always the one thing hardest for you to do – giving instead of receiving?”

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342. “If you truly loved someone you won’t become their enemy. You will become their guardian angel.”

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343. “Beauty fades and the body becomes old, but nothing can dull the shine of a woman with a good heart.”

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344. “Your ability to see will never broaden when you only see yourself.”

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345. “Never settle on a life you don’t want when God is trying to give you a better life.”

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346. “When you really want something, you will give up a million times, but your heart keeps taking you back to the starting line.”

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347. “Great leaders get people to admit the truth because they know that dreams are buried under the lies they tell themselves, in order to feel okay with giving up.”

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348. “If soulmates did exist I am pretty sure they would never divorce you, dump you, kick you out, separate from you or make you an option. They would never give up because you meant that much to them.”

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349. “Gratitude was never a noun; it’s secretly a verb. It is not a place you accept defeat, settle in for broken dreams or call it the best life will get. Gratitude is getting out of laziness, self pity, denial and insecurity, in order to walk through that door God has been holding open for you this entire time.”

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350. “Often what people don’t say or leave out, tells the real story.”

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