Top 500 Shannon L. Alder Quotes (2026 Update)
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301. “You won’t find peace with another, until you become one person – not two.”

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302. “The people that understand you the most are not always the people you call family. Often, it is the person that has traveled a parallel road because they have seen the same scenery in life and can comment on the view.”

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303. “Religious guilt will never grow the kind of love you want in someone.”

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304. “The only man worth having in your life is one that would never let you walk away.”

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305. “The more you rationalize, the more you move farther away from your authentic self.”

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306. “Being a good person doesn’t mean you fit the life of every person you meet.”

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307. “Anyone can possess, anyone can profess, but it is an altogether different thing to confess.”

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308. “You can’t live in your mind and expect those dreams to become real, without the work. Reality requires actions that might feel scary, but that is what is required if you want to find true love. Don’t expect it to come and rescue you. You have to rescue yourself.”

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309. “Doing evil to another person doesn’t prove your love and loyalty to another person; it proves your significant other wants you to walk away from the light because they are lonely living in the dark.”

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310. “I am not perfect, but if I looked perfect to everyone I must have been rocking imperfect perfectly to a few imperfect souls that seek imperfection vs. perfection, in an imperfect world where God asks us to seek perfection for our imperfect souls.”

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311. “Beauty fades and the body becomes old, but nothing can dull the shine of a woman with a good heart.”

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312. “You might lose battles in your life time. However, every person that stands bravely on the side of justice, for people that have no voice, wins the true battle – Gods.”

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313. “It is so simple, yet so hard for some people to do. If you want someone out of your life then you and only “you” must tell him or her to leave. This can only be done by you. Otherwise, your silence shouts, “I am undecided.” When other people get involved it sends mixed signals. If only more people would be so bold, hearts would not linger so long.”

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314. “You won’t find angels in hell, only demons that know how to play with yours.”

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315. “It is not the monsters we should be afraid of; it is the people that don’t recognize the same monsters inside of themself.”

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316. “Take the high road. People will rise up to join you or fall out of sight.”

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317. “When you can’t escape your mind then God is telling your heart to catch up. Fight for the balance you need.”

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318. “Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is knowing your value, instead of expecting a man’s love to provide you with value.”

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319. “You don’t have to apologize for loving someone or wanting a life that no longer fits your blueprint. The beginning phase of reclaiming your life always starts with apologizing to yourself, then apologizing to others for wasting their time because of your fear based decisions. The truth is when we eliminate fear we often find the real path we were meant to be on.”

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320. “Guilt is a lazy feeling that takes no action; the wings of integrity are the only thing that sets it free.”

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321. “We are all daughters of God in various stages of construction.”

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322. “Never underestimate the woman that holds God’s pen.”

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323. “Sometimes, you can be more than enough for someone, but they choose not to be in your life. Always remember that Satan works hard to keep people miserable by feeding their fears, so they stay in their comfort zone. The truth is some people value what is predictable, more than chemistry.”

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324. “One of the easiest things for a rescuer to do is to love people without a soul because we genuinely believe that our love can fill the void inside them. Unfortunately, it drains us of our own love. The love of self.”

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325. “What lies between where you are and where you want to be sometimes requires traveling through the Twilight Zone.”

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326. “Empowering Women 101: Know the difference between real love and a person that is with you because it is easy and convenient. A real woman doesn’t live in the fantasy that he just all of a sudden knew you were the one and no one else believes that either. Be willing to settle and accept the situation or work on it. However, don’t sit in denial and pretend going through hell in a relationship was required before he saw your worth. He should have known from the beginning.”

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327. “A true love story has always been about the journey, not the ending.”

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328. “The problem will never be diversity, the challenging of tradition or the one person that questions the way life should be. The person that shows the world that this is wrong, there is a perspective you didn’t consider, this is worth fighting for and being different is a blessing, will always be the solution for change.”

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329. “Are we not all books waiting for someone to pick us up and read the pages that people missed?”

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330. “Empowered Women 101: A man doesn’t have to put down other women to prove his love for you. In fact, why would you teach him to be less than Christlike, in order to show his devotion? Real women don’t need the people in their life to lower others, in order to raise them up.”

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331. “Gratitude was never a noun; it’s secretly a verb. It is not a place you accept defeat, settle in for broken dreams or call it the best life will get. Gratitude is getting out of laziness, self pity, denial and insecurity, in order to walk through that door God has been holding open for you this entire time.”

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332. “Every talent you have is not wasted. It is there because of a reason and God will open that door when the right time comes along to use it.”

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333. “Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another: Why can’t you see who I truly am?”

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334. “Always remember that you have been called worse things by better people.”

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335. “When you live with dignity no man will ever take it. Live without it and every boy will steal it.”

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336. “Gratitude can’t grow love higher than regret.”

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337. “Be patient and believe in your future. God is already there and is preparing a way.”

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338. “Don’t talk yourself into falling in love with someone. Either, you are in love or you are not. True love is not a choice. It is something you know in your heart when all guilt, doubt and fear are removed.”

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339. “You can rationalize anything, but that is not total honesty, only your version of it based on your upbringing and experiences outside of everyone else’s reality.”

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340. “Reality was once a dream that took flight.”

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341. “I don’t need to go to heaven or hell. I have been both places and always wanted more. I will settle for somewhere in between, so eternity never becomes dull and every miracle is something I never take for granted.”

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342. “True self confidence happens when you stop blaming others for not seeing what you love about yourself. Not everyone has the same list of needs.”

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343. “Have you ever thought that the battle you are in was never a lesson, but a test? Will you choose your comfort, ego and feelings or will you choose to prove your love of Christ by humbling your heart and seeing that the solution was always the one thing hardest for you to do – giving instead of receiving?”

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344. “Empowered Women 101: If he’s with you, it’s a given that he finds you attractive. Don’t talk him out of his attraction by highlighting all your flaws and spending your time cutting down other women’s qualities that you are jealous of. A real women focuses on what she has and fixes what she doesn’t like. She doesn’t blame people for not seeing what she doesn’t always see in herself.”

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345. “There really is nothing normal about being in love with someone. It’s a million emotions with a million excuses.”

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346. “If you truly loved someone you won’t become their enemy. You will become their guardian angel.”

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347. “Your ability to see will never broaden when you only see yourself.”

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348. “Never settle on a life you don’t want when God is trying to give you a better life.”

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349. “Sometimes all you need is one person with a guilty conscience to come forward and do the right thing. Often, the miracle you need resides inside of yourself, when you humbly ask for forgiveness.”

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350. “When you really want something, you will give up a million times, but your heart keeps taking you back to the starting line.”

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