Top 500 Shannon L. Alder Quotes (2024 Update)
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301. “Empowering Women 101: Know the difference between real love and a person that is with you because it is easy and convenient. A real woman doesn’t live in the fantasy that he just all of a sudden knew you were the one and no one else believes that either. Be willing to settle and accept the situation or work on it. However, don’t sit in denial and pretend going through hell in a relationship was required before he saw your worth. He should have known from the beginning.”

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302. “If you want to heal your heart surround yourself with people that won’t tell you hating other people is how you get over being hurt. Surround yourself with people that will tell you to be more like Christ and reach out to those you don’t understand or are offended by. Bitter insecure and anxious people will tell you everything you need to hear to help you move on, but very little of it will be the true teachings of Christ.”

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303. “When you find love you will know. It will be the one thing worth waiting for.”

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304. “When you really want something, you will give up a million times, but your heart keeps taking you back to the starting line.”

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305. “Your ability to see will never broaden when you only see yourself.”

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306. “Evolving is not arrogance. It is confidence that won’t be pulled backwards, by those that feel left behind.”

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307. “If soulmates did exist I am pretty sure they would never divorce you, dump you, kick you out, separate from you or make you an option. They would never give up because you meant that much to them.”

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308. “Empowered Women 101: A man doesn’t have to put down other women to prove his love for you. In fact, why would you teach him to be less than Christlike, in order to show his devotion? Real women don’t need the people in their life to lower others, in order to raise them up.”

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309. “You can’t live in your mind and expect those dreams to become real, without the work. Reality requires actions that might feel scary, but that is what is required if you want to find true love. Don’t expect it to come and rescue you. You have to rescue yourself.”

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310. “Fear and focus are the only two things standing between you and staying positive.”

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311. “It is so simple, yet so hard for some people to do. If you want someone out of your life then you and only “you” must tell him or her to leave. This can only be done by you. Otherwise, your silence shouts, “I am undecided.” When other people get involved it sends mixed signals. If only more people would be so bold, hearts would not linger so long.”

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312. “Never settle on a life you don’t want when God is trying to give you a better life.”

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313. “Courage can’t exist without action. Anything else is a lion without his roar.”

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314. “Truth and facts are woven together. However, sometimes facts can blind you from seeing what is actually going on in someone’s life.”

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315. “Never believe someone cares for you because of other people’s reactions. Sometimes you have to drown out the noise from the crowd, in order to figure out if there is a song playing between the two of you or simply annoying static that you thought was a tune.”

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316. “The problem will never be diversity, the challenging of tradition or the one person that questions the way life should be. The person that shows the world that this is wrong, there is a perspective you didn’t consider, this is worth fighting for and being different is a blessing, will always be the solution for change.”

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317. “Being a good person doesn’t mean you fit the life of every person you meet.”

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318. “My love has no boundaries and is bound by no rules, except one: Love all of me and I will love all of you.”

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319. “Mental illness is not a fraternity or a social club for like minds. It is its own religion to each person that has it. Their mind is their pastor, their feelings are their scriptures and their delusions are their own bible story. To break them free, is to break their faith in signs. That is why so many feel lost.”

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320. “If you chase anything in life chase the things that get you excited about living. Chase the things that give you hope, happiness and a glimpse of a better life. Chase the things that make you want to be a better person. Chase the things that inspire you to think, create and live joyfully. Chase the things that reinforce in your soul that you can make a difference. Chase the things that make you want to transform your heart from selfish to selfless. When you chase that kind of storm you are chasing rainbows.”

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321. “God will always deliver the truth when you have enough faith to believe in miracles.”

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322. “Have you ever thought that the battle you are in was never a lesson, but a test? Will you choose your comfort, ego and feelings or will you choose to prove your love of Christ by humbling your heart and seeing that the solution was always the one thing hardest for you to do – giving instead of receiving?”

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323. “When you believe you have lost your power and control nothing will ever seem easy or simple.”

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324. “Empowered Women 101: Empowered women never live the life they wouldn’t want for their daughter. They teach them what self respect looks like.”

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325. “Never stand in the way of letting God use people’s actions, in order to solve a greater issue in the world.”

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326. “True self confidence happens when you stop blaming others for not seeing what you love about yourself. Not everyone has the same list of needs.”

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327. “Timing is only lack of enough emotions.”

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328. “Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another: Why can’t you see who I truly am?”

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329. “Gratitude was never a noun; it’s secretly a verb. It is not a place you accept defeat, settle in for broken dreams or call it the best life will get. Gratitude is getting out of laziness, self pity, denial and insecurity, in order to walk through that door God has been holding open for you this entire time.”

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330. “There really is nothing normal about being in love with someone. It’s a million emotions with a million excuses.”

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331. “Be patient and believe in your future. God is already there and is preparing a way.”

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332. “Life is always a series of encounters that demand you prove your love.”

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333. “Great leaders get people to admit the truth because they know that dreams are buried under the lies they tell themselves, in order to feel okay with giving up.”

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334. “The only man worth having in your life is one that would never let you walk away.”

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335. “Where you hang your feelings is where you hang your focus.”

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336. “The people meant to be in your life will look inside, not just stare at the pretty bow on the box.”

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337. “Reality was once a dream that took flight.”

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338. “A daughter of God knows that insecurity is not an excuse for doing evil to others, nor will God rest until caring for everyone is a lesson you learn.”

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339. “Don’t talk yourself into falling in love with someone. Either, you are in love or you are not. True love is not a choice. It is something you know in your heart when all guilt, doubt and fear are removed.”

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340. “In every experience we get to choose either love or fear as a response. Your character is formed by the percentages of those choices, which then forms your life.”

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341. “Do not except anything as love without truth because love and truth have always been best friends.”

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342. “I am totally convinced my guardian angel is an addict because I can’t find my Adderall and she is not talking.”

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343. “Silence by any other name is called shame.”

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344. “Religious guilt will never grow the kind of love you want in someone.”

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345. “If your children know who God is they will know who they are, regardless of where you or they call home.”

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346. “Commitment is the foundation of focus.”

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347. “Gratitude can’t grow love higher than regret.”

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348. “When you invite people to share in your miracle, you create future allies during rough weather.”

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349. “Sometimes all you need is one person with a guilty conscience to come forward and do the right thing. Often, the miracle you need resides inside of yourself, when you humbly ask for forgiveness.”

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350. “Don’t beg for approval or expect respect. Respect comes from within and your choice to allow people to take it from you, by how you teach them to treat you.”

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